Just say u cannot takes too liang lor. Already took western medication dun want to mix...
dolly / doodoo,
yes, thats exactly what i said, i told her tt i am taking the doc medicine and dont wan to mix !
Just say u cannot takes too liang lor. Already took western medication dun want to mix...
Apparently cross ing ur legs is bad for blood circulationcannot cross lehs?!!? whoa seh that whole list i always do leh... except heels... what else cannot do?
how to not drink leh, if given?
Hahaha... I immediately uncrossed my leg upon reading your post...Apparently cross ing ur legs is bad for blood circulation
I also go to her! My #1 I get very fast but now #2 no luck leh... this wed gonna bring hb to see her as well cuz she hinted may not be my issue...Yup yup Dr Su from fu Nan tcm, my friend went 2 to 3 mths to tio body and successful with cute bb girl now...
Apparently cross ing ur legs is bad for blood circulation
yar definitely expect changes since room temp is diff.. plus time differences.. but i'm already back at home but my temp still weirdo!! >.< just wondering if my thermometer is spoilt because of the flights.... my opk confirm got positive, and usually 1 day later is measured O by FF... but this month temp says nothing about O at all... zzzdoodoo
sometimes going on holiday temp might defer. cos our mood oso diff. we feel excited or not normal.. so temp oso weird weird de. sleeping patterns change, diff bed, diff room diff temp/weather, maybe oso diff time, so temp oso change. my temp this mth oso very weird. like see saw. up n dwn. think i din O hopeless le
oh smart smart. i always dunno what to do during tww... mil makes all sorts of liang teh everyday... forced to drink at least 2 cups gao gao each time.. but scared too liang so i make different excuses to avoid taking, until now i think she abit pissed off already :XJust say u cannot takes too liang lor. Already took western medication dun want to mix...
well, i guess tt's true! coz if i cross too long legs will get numb.. but nv really though abt its effect on womb...Apparently cross ing ur legs is bad for blood circulation
YAY!!!! so happy for you!! The last time I also used this, quite zhun. Another way I determine was through the food I eat. I love to eat durians alot...but when I passed by the durian stall, I had to walk or run damn fast because it smelt like some stinko dumpster that has alot of rotten food.
Grace, till now i still love durian.. Food wise not much diff jus tat i hv no appetite lately.
Anyway i will be going for my blood test tml to confirm... Hehehe a bit too much but i just wan to confirm i'm BFP.
@littlebabysheep , i lean my knees against my chest for 30mins everytime i BD lei, abit kiasu this round.. Cos previous time i only lift my legs up straight and can merely hold on for 10mins. Then, my sis told me her fren tried tis method and succeed 1st round, so this cycle i tried too, and YES it works!!. Use a pillow to jack ur butt, den hv ur knees to you chest as close as possible for 30mins. (During this 30mins is self entertain time, watch drama on ipad else will play game) For me, after this method, there is very little spillage.
@littlebabysheep , i lean my knees against my chest for 30mins everytime i BD lei, abit kiasu this round.. Cos previous time i only lift my legs up straight and can merely hold on for 10mins. Then, my sis told me her fren tried tis method and succeed 1st round, so this cycle i tried too, and YES it works!!. Use a pillow to jack ur butt, den hv ur knees to you chest as close as possible for 30mins. (During this 30mins is self entertain time, watch drama on ipad else will play game) For me, after this method, there is very little spillage.
I do not know if red dates contradict with western medicine cos i m on chinese medi together with red dates and wolfberries.
@werrywert , Congrats!!
trying to follow and congrats all the BFP mummies
Hoping to get some baby dust too
my feet is always cold, does it mean i have cold body?
i also do tt leh! but hor... usually ~20min then legs are numb already... then must move move abit but still legs in the air... but then hor... 6-7 cycles doing this ler still no bfp!! >.<@littlebabysheep , i lean my knees against my chest for 30mins everytime i BD lei, abit kiasu this round.. Cos previous time i only lift my legs up straight and can merely hold on for 10mins. Then, my sis told me her fren tried tis method and succeed 1st round, so this cycle i tried too, and YES it works!!. Use a pillow to jack ur butt, den hv ur knees to you chest as close as possible for 30mins. (During this 30mins is self entertain time, watch drama on ipad else will play game) For me, after this method, there is very little spillage.
I do not know if red dates contradict with western medicine cos i m on chinese medi together with red dates and wolfberries.
@werrywert , Congrats!!
feet/palm cold means body is liang?your palms also cold too?
your palms also cold too?
i also do tt leh! but hor... usually ~20min then legs are numb already... then must move move abit but still legs in the air... but then hor... 6-7 cycles doing this ler still no bfp!! >.<
feet/palm cold means body is liang?
@Iwanbaby You mean, immed after u BD, you just hug ur knees to your chest when you use pillow to prop your butt? won't flow out meh? Squeeze tightly also in the process?
Yup, normally after BD will hub will lift my legs up to slot the pillow in. Den i will let my knees go close to my chest... Not really hug, no force need... jus relax and let it lean on ur chest / boobs hahahah...
@Iwanbaby You mean, immed after u BD, you just hug ur knees to your chest when you use pillow to prop your butt? won't flow out meh? Squeeze tightly also in the process?
i also do tt leh! but hor... usually ~20min then legs are numb already... then must move move abit but still legs in the air... but then hor... 6-7 cycles doing this ler still no bfp!! >.<
feet/palm cold means body is liang?
@doodoo123 I'm not too sure but seems to hear ppl saying that very often and then they also mention that they have low bbt. Seems to have a connection but I dare not presume. Because I have very warm or hot palms and feet but till now, still no news also. Somemore my bbt is more than 36.5 normally. I saw tcm before and she did mention that I have heaty body.
Realised that I have many classmates who got married later than me or around the same time as me, all BFP le..
I feel so useless and helpless. Very upset and disappointed.
I really don't know how to motivate myself or to keep a positive mindset.
Just feel negative...
Feel like quitting my job and running away from everyone so that I don't need to see another friend getting pregnant or hear anyone asking me when is my turn...
I also wish my turn comes soon but it just won't... and every failed cycle means at least another 30+ days of wait... Day by day, it just goes by...
What can I do if heaven has forgotten me when it is planning for babies?
So upset...
yar me been doing the hug-leg thing on chest... also coz simply raising legs in the air is too tiring!! hugging at chest simpler.. hee.. but still no news.. hopefully soon!!Yup, normally after BD will hub will lift my legs up to slot the pillow in. Den i will let my knees go close to my chest... Not really hug, no force need... jus relax and let it lean on ur chest / boobs hahahah...
Doodoo, i tried uplift my legs in the air.. Doesnt work for cycles too and its so damn tiring and tedious.. After 10 mins my legs start to shake...
So i change to bend my knees near to chest... u can give it a try next round.. hope you BFP too.
i also have cold palms/feet leh... but tcm never really say my body heaty or liang... my bbt is <36.5 before O, and >36.5 after O.. is tt highi or low???@doodoo123 I'm not too sure but seems to hear ppl saying that very often and then they also mention that they have low bbt. Seems to have a connection but I dare not presume. Because I have very warm or hot palms and feet but till now, still no news also. Somemore my bbt is more than 36.5 normally. I saw tcm before and she did mention that I have heaty body.
me too!! feel so sian!! i actually have formed concrete plans to move... by next June... will only cancel it if got bb... if not.. byebye to singapore+family+friends.. got enuff of busybodies probing my family lifeRealised that I have many classmates who got married later than me or around the same time as me, all BFP le..
I feel so useless and helpless. Very upset and disappointed.
I really don't know how to motivate myself or to keep a positive mindset.
Just feel negative...
Feel like quitting my job and running away from everyone so that I don't need to see another friend getting pregnant or hear anyone asking me when is my turn...
I also wish my turn comes soon but it just won't... and every failed cycle means at least another 30+ days of wait... Day by day, it just goes by...
What can I do if heaven has forgotten me when it is planning for babies?
So upset...
hi tink3rb3ll, yah, I think I give myself a lot of stress... I think I am going crazy soon, form the roller coaster of feelings... one moment up, one moment down... haiz... Why? Why must I let this control my life? I know there are many beautiful things in this world but why I must let myself get so upset over this?Piggling... not give up.. dont give urself too much stress... my side also the same a lot of them married later than me also got preggy and have bb.. some also already got 2 kids... im sure we will have our BFPs soon... dont think too much to stress urself further.
Relax urself go for exercise... BTW i also hands and foots cold the moment im in air con plc... but i get heaty easily if i eat those heaty food.
might be due to weak blood circulation?
yar me been doing the hug-leg thing on chest... also coz simply raising legs in the air is too tiring!! hugging at chest simpler.. hee.. but still no news.. hopefully soon!!
i also have cold palms/feet leh... but tcm never really say my body heaty or liang... my bbt is <36.5 before O, and >36.5 after O.. is tt highi or low???
me too!! feel so sian!! i actually have formed concrete plans to move... by next June... will only cancel it if got bb... if not.. byebye to singapore+family+friends.. got enuff of busybodies probing my family life
Ya i think she is quite gd so she is popular too. my friend said need to q for very long too. Will be gg down soon with my DH so can see together.I also go to her! My #1 I get very fast but now #2 no luck leh... this wed gonna bring hb to see her as well cuz she hinted may not be my issue...
only when I'm in this thread, then I realise I'm also not alone. hugs to all those who are also ttc-ing. Everyone have their own story behind them. Yes, everyone ard me also preggie or ttc and really preggie in the end. It's been sad and even more saddening when sometimes it feels like it's so near, but yet so far
Then again, we must never lose hope until the very end.
Choco I give u a bit of dust first (and other ttc ladies here), after my 8 wk scan on fri i will splash more dust if all is okPiggling.. I'm feeling the same as u... really exactly the same... but all we can do is to wait patiently lo... I believe all of us can reach the finishing line, but some are faster n some slower.. like in a marathon lo! If all reach finishing at the same time, trophies 不是要分很多个??? anyway I always tell myself, maybe it's not time yet lo.. but will definitely come sooner or later... makes me feel better this way....
By the way, congrats to all June bfps!!! Pls pour bb dusts on me ok???
Same here...only when I'm in this thread, then I realise I'm also not alone. hugs to all those who are also ttc-ing. Everyone have their own story behind them. Yes, everyone ard me also preggie or ttc and really preggie in the end. It's been sad and even more saddening when sometimes it feels like it's so near, but yet so far
Then again, we must never lose hope until the very end.
Piggling.. ya when too much stress will affect our body too.. so this rd i really just do as per what i use to do which is to go jogging, go exercise what i enjoy most.. u shld also start to relax urself and dont let it control your life anymore.. i also have the tot of migrating but my DH got a lot concerns in migrating unless there is very gd opportunity out at the plc we moving to then we can go ahead with it.hi tink3rb3ll, yah, I think I give myself a lot of stress... I think I am going crazy soon, form the roller coaster of feelings... one moment up, one moment down... haiz... Why? Why must I let this control my life? I know there are many beautiful things in this world but why I must let myself get so upset over this?
Can you share what you mean by move?
This morning, I also just asked my husband, can we migrate? Haiz....
Choco I give u a bit of dust first (and other ttc ladies here), after my 8 wk scan on fri i will splash more dust if all is ok
Thanks tink3rb3ll, I will try not to be too stressed... and try to live life normally.Piggling.. ya when too much stress will affect our body too.. so this rd i really just do as per what i use to do which is to go jogging, go exercise what i enjoy most.. u shld also start to relax urself and dont let it control your life anymore.. i also have the tot of migrating but my DH got a lot concerns in migrating unless there is very gd opportunity out at the plc we moving to then we can go ahead with it.
Yay!!! Thank u thank u!!
Piggling, I also go everywhere will see big tummies infront of me n sometimes on emo days I will 撒娇to my hubby n say when will my tummy be big big also... then he'll sayang me n distract me say he'll bring me go eat buffet n then my tummy will be big big also!! Hahaha... then we'll just laugh it off jiu no more emo le...
Thanks tink3rb3ll, I will try not to be too stressed... and try to live life normally.
Hehehe, your husband v funny!
I dare not say when will my tummy be big... because I think my husband will say, it is already very big! hahahahaa.
Fat tummy...
Sometimes so sianz... People de big got babies.. mine is all fats.
Ya! try to find ur interest back ... soon u know u will be BFP le so many of them here spreading the BB dusts around and so many tips given by all sisters hereThanks tink3rb3ll, I will try not to be too stressed... and try to live life normally.
Hehehe, your husband v funny!
I dare not say when will my tummy be big... because I think my husband will say, it is already very big! hahahahaa.
Fat tummy...
Sometimes so sianz... People de big got babies.. mine is all fats.
Ya! try to find ur interest back ... soon u know u will be BFP le so many of them here spreading the BB dusts around and so many tips given by all sisters here
Congrats Jocelyn!!
migrate lor. we always toyed with tt idea... but this bb thing can be the final catalyst to make tt happen... we have better opportunities out there...hi tink3rb3ll, yah, I think I give myself a lot of stress... I think I am going crazy soon, form the roller coaster of feelings... one moment up, one moment down... haiz... Why? Why must I let this control my life? I know there are many beautiful things in this world but why I must let myself get so upset over this?
Can you share what you mean by move?
This morning, I also just asked my husband, can we migrate? Haiz....
alamak, why the ILs so buay-zi-dong one?!?! issit they ownself want to ahem issit.. lolHi ladies, i am back!
Congrats to werrywert, gamma, iwanbaby, pooh232 and pumpkeen! Wow, we have 5 BFPs this June! Productive month!
Anyway, so sad lo.....i was eagerly waiting to BD during our holiday trip coz i predicted i would ovulate one of the days there. In the end, i think i did ovulate but alas! We were not alone in the hotel room....my maid slept in the same room as us. I tried to "get rid" of my maid by wanting her to sleep in same room as my in-laws but my in-laws insisted she slept with us.....sigh. I was like @#*&@%. We did BD two times after we came back to SG but i think no hope for another March baby la (my #2 born in March). So envious of the BFPs this month!
Think i shall work harder in July! Waiting for AF to come later this week and then chiongggggggg ah.......
Jia you, everyone!