I also wish to go to the woman hse n tell her mum what her daughter has done to other ppl family.. home wrecker.. I have her address.. so wish to print out phamplets n put into all letter box in her estate.. but think this is illegal.. get caught bcos of this den not worth
Ya.. that's y i didn't do it. But so feel like letting her mum know what kind of shameless thing her daughter is doing n breaking other ppl family.. of cos can't push all blame to the woman.. my husb also one kind... doesn't wan to let her go also
Lol.. Ya.. he still living in his fairy tale story where he can have best of both worlds tgtA lady told me before...Some men just can't let their stuff stay with them.They must let it run wild around.
Your HB thinks he is those emperor or what?Must have one empress and extra 2000 concubines?
Lol.. Ya.. he still living in his fairy tale story where he can have best of both worlds tgt
Lol.. I wonder hw they can distribute love and say he love both woman.. n say his love nw split 50 to me n 50 to her..He watched too much of those drama serials on ancient China already lol.
Lol.. I wonder hw they can distribute love and say he love both woman.. n say his love nw split 50 to me n 50 to her..
Ya.. that's y after he told me his affair and till nw is 2mths.. I still cannot accept the woman.. he still building clouds in his brain n think hw he can let us both get along.. den gd for him.. till nw still dreaming..A load of crap...No woman can take such nonsense.
Ya.. that's y after he told me his affair and till me is 2mths.. I still cannot accept the woman.. he still building clouds in his brain n think hw he can let us both get along.. den gd for him.. till nw still dreaming..
If it's prc den at least I know mayb bcos of money.. but my husb is involve with a local 26yo.. my husb also not rich.. the woman says love my husb.. blah blah.. n my husb say love her bcos he got the feel like our park tor period that kind of love..
A lady told me before...Some men just can't let their stuff stay with them.They must let it run wild around.
Your HB thinks he is those emperor or what?Must have one empress and extra 2000 concubines?
Lol.. Ya. That's wat I told my husb also.. other ppl got money.. but he dun haveDifferent
Emperor has the power and money to feed all his women.
Ya.. that's y i didn't do it. But so feel like letting her mum know what kind of shameless thing her daughter is doing n breaking other ppl family.. of cos can't push all blame to the woman.. my husb also one kind... doesn't wan to let her go also
If it's prc den at least I know mayb bcos of money.. but my husb is involve with a local 26yo.. my husb also not rich.. the woman says love my husb.. blah blah.. n my husb say love her bcos he got the feel like our park tor period that kind of love..
Lol.. Ya. That's wat I told my husb also.. other ppl got money.. but he dun have
Fact of life sisters, to the family no money, but to the women outside very willing to spend. No money also go borrow n pretend to be rich
Yeah even to the extent of stealing money from Wife to remit to the PRC and max up all credit cardsFact of life sisters, to the family no money, but to the women outside very willing to spend. No money also go borrow n pretend to be rich
Yeah even to the extent of stealing money from Wife to remit to the PRC and max up all credit cards
Anyway i feel we have to move forward.
But not at the expense of suffering for ourself n children. If one day, he still wan the children acknowledge him as a father, he have to Make sure he fulfilled his roles by giving the children maintenance in order to give them better living lifestyles
When prc is involved in the EMA, cut your losses and leave. (Oh well, can't blame the perception whn they really infamous of some act.)
Losing a man to a prc, is ok. Losing money thru your man to a prc? i always believe money is your last line of defense. You have the money, you have men coming to you.
To get a prc to move on w their act, you got to leave the stage all to her.
Tit for tat for these kinda woman? No point.
Don't lower yourself.
And why do you say that when PRC is involved in EMA, cut your losses and leave? What do you mean by “to get a PRC to move on with their act”?
Cut losses and leave:
If she wanted money and attention, she will suck your husband dry. Husband borrow money, max out credit cards jus to satisfy her, etc. As a legal partner, you will b implicated eventually. Leave when your finances are healthy wil entitled you a fair share.
Moving on w their act:
Man like the pak-tor stage. Makes them feel desirable and sense of achievement. Your leaving wil 'upgrade' them frm the pak-your stage. Then they will kinda settle down and prc wil start bringing their whole village here. So, it will b the start of your sweet revenge. Vicious cycle.
But with you still in the pic, you will always b the sour yellow-faced wife and she will always stay as the bubbly sweet young thg who fetches slippers for your man.
I felt that if both of us continues to chip in to the maintenance of my girls,I see no problem with life going on without him in the house.
I emphasised to the girls about continued respect for their dad and I will never poison their minds about their dad as a father and person.
To my youngest girl,her dad is still a hero.[/QUOTE
I felt that if both of us continues to chip in to the maintenance of my girls,I see no problem with life going on without him in the house.
I emphasised to the girls about continued respect for their dad and I will never poison their minds about their dad as a father and person.
To my youngest girl,her dad is still a hero.
Lol.. Ya. That's wat I told my husb also.. other ppl got money.. but he dun haveDifferent
Emperor has the power and money to feed all his women.
My husb lover different... she know he is not rich.. no money also.. the woman can pay fully for a motor bike but my husb still need to pay instalment.. so she not like my husb bcos of moneyWhen you don't have money,which outside woman will follow you?
Then give ur husb to her.. see if she really can tahan this kind of 'simple' life with him..The PRC told my idiot Husband she only wants a simple life with him. My husband looks good from outside.. got almost all the Cs except for career. But inside is negative and full of debts. The PRC oso got 2 Children from her previous marriage.
My husb still ask me to accept the woman into my house n we both can serve him tgt.. den he can also save the money n hassle of buying another flat with the woman.. *faint*
Whn a local is involved in EMA, the story cuts differently. Local woman's stakes r higher. They hv family friends and job prospect locally. Unless you want to hold onto and ride it out. If not i suggest move on.
For their relationship w the hubby to b so strong and determine, most of the time, the husband played a very assuring role to kp it, the woman had given sufficient thought to giv it a go and that they hv slept together. In some aspect, their feeling for each other mostly is base on genuine love.
However if you choose to stick around, the stake of winning may b higher. You either wear out their determination or increase her risk of exposing her deeds.
Ya. They have slept already.. my husb has been forthright about this to me.. n said he love her n me too.. dats y he wan me to accept her so he can have both n he no need to make a choice to give up either of us. I tot of hanging there.. but it will cause a toll on me.. my emotion as well.. with my emotion like this.. I can hardly focus on my kidsWhn a local is involved in EMA, the story cuts differently. Local woman's stakes r higher. They hv family friends and job prospect locally. Unless you want to hold onto and ride it out. If not i suggest move on.
For their relationship w the hubby to b so strong and determine, most of the time, the husband played a very assuring role to kp it, the woman had given sufficient thought to giv it a go and that they hv slept together. In some aspect, their feeling for each other mostly is base on genuine love.
However if you choose to stick around, the stake of winning may b higher. You either wear out their determination or increase her risk of exposing her deeds.
Ya. They have slept already.. my husb has been forthright about this to me.. n said he love her n me too.. dats y he wan me to accept her so he can have both n he no need to make a choice to give up either of us. I tot of hanging there.. but it will cause a toll on me.. my emotion as well.. with my emotion like this.. I can hardly focus on my kids
I don't think their determination will wear out.. cause the woman wants to stay with my husb and she is considering of buying a condo n stay in with my husb.. my husb wan to split 50% of the week to her.. so means he will stay 3days overnight with her.. hw to accept this? Can a woman really accept this n allow her husb to do this?
I knew someone that is like that as the man refused to divorce his legal Wife n after more than 20 years they continue with such arrangement
Ya lo..that's wat I think also.. my husb say she is ok..she also say as long with my husb she is ok.. but all this say nw of cos she ok.. as long as I agree to share my husb 50% with her.. as I am considering this I have yet to response to my husb whether I agree or not.. nw she change he words.. n tell my husb say she wan all of him to herself.. so in order to do that I have to goA 26 year old local is ok not to marry and be someone’s Mistress for the rest of her life?
Yeah husband is rich and CEO of some listed companiesThe husband must have a lot of money, time and stamina
This is suffering for the wife... hw can the wife tolerate it.. I dun think I can.. cos nw even I let them meet I also feel terribleI knew someone that is like that as the man refused to divorce his legal Wife n after more than 20 years they continue with such arrangement
My husb not rich leh..The husband must have a lot of money, time and stamina
My husb not rich leh..
This I also dunno.. but they stay in hub estate.. if rich den y stay at hdbThen how do they afford condo?
Unless the 26 year old girl comes with a golden spoon
This I also dunno.. but they stay in hub estate.. if rich den y stay at hdb
Not sure what she work as.. think something as designer.. work hr quite flexiWhat is she working as?
Not sure what she work as.. think something as designer.. work hr quite flexi
Hmmm
Then how to afford condo?