Hi ladies. Even though I don't have red eggs to share, but I hope to share the baby dust with you all.
I was still active in the forum earlier this year as I was going through my supposed last subsidised cycle of IVF as we were close to using all 15k of the MediSave withdrawal limit. So we saw this as our last attempt at and we had gone through 1 fresh, 2 FETs before this final fresh cycle. What I did to prepare was mainly taking CoQ10 and tried my best to avoid cold drinks and had a bit of red dates tea occasionally because prior to that I loved cold drinks. Low ovarian reserve with endo and also am 36 already this year.
Our last fresh cycle only had 3 fertilized embryos but by transfer day, we were left with 1 good blastocyst, 1 that was barely making it and 1 that didn't make it at all. We were made to decide right there and then if we wanted to transfer the 1 that was barely making it as well but we decided to just go ahead and transfer the 1 good blastocyst in the end. I knew if we were to be blessed with twins, I would have a hard time and I may risk a lot because of my health and I didn't want to risk the babies either. Luckily for us, this one blastocyst implanted and I just delivered my baby recently.
I've been with SGH Dr Yong TT all these while and she's also the one who saw me through my pregnancy and delivered my baby. I have to agree that the waiting time at SGH CARE can be very long at times because of how small the clinic is and they seem to be having more patients during my last consultation with them and also when I visited them today to inform them of my baby's birth. But the staff and nurses there have taken such good care of my husband & I during our journey with them that I don't regret all the time I spent waiting because during tough times the nurses have been the most reassuring. I know some ladies may not like the pace at how they get things done and the rush they feel there most times.
Especially if you're seeing Dr Yong TT, be prepared that the nurses may need to head over to the other clinic to look for her because she also sees a lot of patients at the OGC side and it's playing the waiting game at times. They don't automatically tell you the grades and whatnot that I often see other ladies post about here. Through my 2+ years with them, I never knew what grade my embryos were and I didn't really ask either.
I haven't been actively checking private messages here ever since I got pregnant because I was mostly feeling unwell, but if you have any questions and I can help to answer, don't hesitate to drop me a message.
Good luck to all the strong ladies and baby dust to all.