hopeful_mum
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don't think about it although its extremely hard!
2WW - for those TTC-ing
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angel_mommy
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hopeful_mum
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she says rest 3-6 mths. she says no point gan chiong and then screw up my body. lol so I listen HALF only.Dr us asked u to rest for how long before TTC again?
I don't actively TTC but im not preventing it. just let nature takes its course this few mths. maybe relax will help
angel_mommy
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she says rest 3-6 mths. she says no point gan chiong and then screw up my body. lol so I listen HALF only.
I don't actively TTC but im not preventing it. just let nature takes its course this few mths. maybe relax will help
I agree.. In fact almost all my frens who TTC for very long only conceived when they start to give up and relax (meaning no taking bbt, no check ovulation etc). Relax will definitely help
me too.. Will only actively TTC maybe starting April.. At least I'm assured now my menses did not go haywire after op.. Still report faithfully on CD30 ..dunno should be happy or not.. Hahahactually ah... when everyone says "relax" to conceive... what do you actually refer to? relax while BD-ing? or throughout the few weeks/months/years while TTC-ing? I suppose relaxation will help make sure the hormonal levels are right, and we ovulate (or hb soldiers are good)... but if we measure and know that ovulation is happening... does tt mean we're "relaxed" enough??
chocopiggie
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Thanks all! Still thinking whether to book appt for HSG if AF come on Monday... very scared of the pain lei... anyway it's tough to relax while ttcing unless u totally give up hope ba...
why would you want to do a HSG? your gynae recommend?
angel_mommy
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Yes, I think as I hear from my fren's sharing, most got pregnant when they gave up hope liao.. Cos they really tried very long like more than 3 years.. Recently one of my frens who jus got her BFP told me she tried for 1 year plus , never strike and got discouraged, gave up hope and stopped all temp taking and checking of ovulation and that was when she got her BFP out of her surprise .. I guess that is what they mean by "relax" .. I supposed is totally give up .. As I recall my first pregnancy when I got my BFP at first try, I rem we were not in a hurry to strike, I was still thinking won't strike at first try, probably need to try for a very long time then can strike.. I didn't take bbt , didn't check for ovulation, just BD and enjoying our life as a married couple (we decided to start trying one year after we got married). Comparing now to last time , I feel now I'm more kan chiong.. Probably becos now getting older .. Biological click ticking.. Last time younger, still think I have more time to try.. But as I get older, it is hard not to be anxious.. But as age s catching up, I think our body also not as fertile as b4.. Sigh..
angel_mommy
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she says rest 3-6 mths. she says no point gan chiong and then screw up my body. lol so I listen HALF only.
I don't actively TTC but im not preventing it. just let nature takes its course this few mths. maybe relax will help
Yes I agree.. Jus let nature takes it's course these few months.. Who knows you might jus strike and have a healthy bb!
chocopiggie
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Doodoo123: Ya, Dr Loh asked us to check if we wanna make sure my tubes are not blocked... cuz my eggs reserve is OK, and I did the blood test n hubby did the SA not long ago... so we meeting him on the 15 for the blood & SA results... the HSG must book appt on cd1 of the cycle as it can only be done b4 cd10... and also must entirely finished menses then can test.. my menses usually end on cd7, so if menses come this cycle, best day to do HSG will be 13.. then 2 days later dr loh can give us results of all 3 tests when we go find him ma... but I scared... hahaha
chocopiggie
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Angel_mommy: this time round really no symptoms lo. Probably party too hard till I only feel tired most of the time. Other than that, nothing!
hopeful_mum
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lol but hor relax also very tough one. coz my cm will tell me when im roughly fertile. like now I don't do OPK, but my body symptoms tell me I Oing and then with CM confirmed I probably O yesterday or Today. but I nvr purposely tell my dh. lol so he doesn't know whats going on.Yes I agree.. Jus let nature takes it's course these few months.. Who knows you might jus strike and have a healthy bb!
angel_mommy
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Heheh.. Me too, can tell from my CM too.. And for me I'll usually have sore breasts just after ovulation. . For me too, hard to relax cos I'm
36 this year liao.. Feels like time is running out for me
hopeful_mum
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another thread, the lady I think turn 39 this year, first baby just delivered in dec last year. lol last year sounded so far back right
so u still have time, somemroe u have a kid already right.
so u still have time, somemroe u have a kid already right.
Hahah.. You mean that time when u get a smiley face , u get the smiley face everyday when u test? For me , I get smiley face then after that, empty circle for one week plus then suddenly get smiley face again. Becos I used the clearblue advanced digital ovulation test kit, the smiley face will remain there for two days so can't test again this morning. The smiley face will only disappear tmr (different from the clearblue easy digital ovulation test kit) .. Sigh .. Maybe the ovulation test kit siao siao.. Make me confuse.
You mentioned you use SMH ovulation test kit.. Good ? Is clearblue fertility monitor good? You used before? I jus wanna ensure that my ovulation does go haywire after my op
Wah, so difficult to catch the egg!
I think the particular clearblue advanced digital ovulation test kit may have problem. The advanced ovulation test kit is the one that has the flashing smiley face (measure estrogen level that signals high fertility cos after rise in estrogen will come the LH surge) and solid smiley face (signals LH surge meaning peak fertility). On Monday I had the solid smiley face (2nd smiley face within this month's cycle ) then I can't test again the next day cos this advanced digital is made such that the solid smiley face will stay on the screen for two days. On Wednesday , I really very curious and itchy hands too, went to test again.. Become flashing smiley face. This morning also flashing smiley face. I concluded that my particular batch may be not working very well. I still have about 6 sticks left.. After this, I think I'll buy the fertility monitor.. Since you ladies have tried and tested and it is quite good. Hope to have more accurate results when i start to TTC
Hi angel_mommy,
Sorry for the late reply. I think it's the same test kit we are using... boo.... I ordered from Amzon. Another set I ordered from Qoo10 coz I have too many balance strips! Second one also smile all the way.
So now I use the balance strips w/o test kit. It works like other normal OPK
2 lines means positive. So don't waste it. What I did for this cycle is,
1) Use Clearblue digital strips for first urine
2) Use cheap cheap OPK (abt 70cts a piece) bought from SMH forum for second urine.
I ordered the green OPK from this seller.
http://singaporemotherhood.com/foru...-response-pregnancy.6880/page-55#post-6592834
Hi doodoo123, this month I more active. start BD on alternate days starting from CD12 for 1.5 week. My hb almost died
wahaa.... he said he felt being used. Cannot imagine how to do for 3 weeks!
angel_mommy
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Hi doodoo123, this month I more active. start BD on alternate days starting from CD12 for 1.5 week. My hb almost died
Hahah.. I laughed when I read your post
I think our hubby all feel being used by us during our fertile period.. Hahah.. I also tried before alternate days for one week and hubby said he almost died.. Wahahah.. There are a few times he came home late and when I requested (cos my peak fertile period) he jus lie down there like a dead fish and asked me to "self service".. Heheh.. Other days he would say his 精价上涨。 he is very cheeky, always make me laugh..
angel_mommy
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Hi angel_mommy,
Sorry for the late reply. I think it's the same test kit we are using... boo.... I ordered from Amzon. Another set I ordered from Qoo10 coz I have too many balance strips! Second one also smile all the way.
So now I use the balance strips w/o test kit. It works like other normal OPK
What I did for this cycle is,
1) Use Clearblue digital strips for first urine
2) Use cheap cheap OPK (abt 70cts a piece) bought from SMH forum for second urine.
I ordered the green OPK from this seller.
http://singaporemotherhood.com/foru...-response-pregnancy.6880/page-55#post-6592834
Thanks for sharing, babysee
I also jus ordered some cheap and sensitive ovulation test kits and pregnancy test kit from Qoo10.. Will buy clearblue too but will use concurrently to check if accurate and consistent result from both test kits.. Sigh.. Tested for so many months but still no luck.. Sometimes feel like giving up and don't test liao .. But no choice.. Have to keep trying lor..hey ladies, I came across the "zhu sheng niang niang" thingy & was wondering how does the egg thing work? As in if we see the eggs being offered at the table there, do we like just pray & take or what? Has been like trying for 2yrs naturally but no news, went to KKH for tests & was told that I had low egg count in bank reserve which makes mi feel very upset & like dui bu qi the hub...haiz..
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Share tips - I bough from amazon. Cheaper compared to buying in Singapore
Oh but hor the fertility monitor worse. Once peak you cannot test again. Unless reset it then can test. But I have nvr reset it before to just try.
So I have a pack of those strips type and normally those will give me peak the night before and then the monitor only detect in the morning. Tried for 5-6roubds very accurate.
So I'm waiting to try, next time I will test at night. Think will be even more accurate!
hopeful_mum, can check how to buy the monitor from amazon? my friend is thinking of buying but tried to look for those under free shipping and the only one she saw was a bundle with monitor + sticks + pregnancy sticks. cannot seem to buy individually and the price of the bundle is US$195 which is like S$250??? seems similar pricing to buying from SMH and SMH having offer now. can share how to buy cheaper? many thanks!
hopeful_mum
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Can buy separate ah just don't selecthopeful_mum, can check how to buy the monitor from amazon? my friend is thinking of buying but tried to look for those under free shipping and the only one she saw was a bundle with monitor + sticks + pregnancy sticks. cannot seem to buy individually and the price of the bundle is US$195 which is like S$250??? seems similar pricing to buying from SMH and SMH having offer now. can share how to buy cheaper? many thanks!
Those with bundle. Smh as in the singapore motherhood site? Oh nvr explore before here. If cheaper than u just buy direct from smh.
Basically just go with which is the cheapest
angel_mommy
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hopeful_mum, can check how to buy the monitor from amazon? my friend is thinking of buying but tried to look for those under free shipping and the only one she saw was a bundle with monitor + sticks + pregnancy sticks. cannot seem to buy individually and the price of the bundle is US$195 which is like S$250??? seems similar pricing to buying from SMH and SMH having offer now. can share how to buy cheaper? many thanks!
Is the SMH one the website that babysee share in this thread?
angel_mommy
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Can buy separate ah just don't select
Those with bundle. Smh as in the singapore motherhood site? Oh nvr explore before here. If cheaper than u just buy direct from smh.
Basically just go with which is the cheapest
The fertility monitor quite ex hor.. But if good then it is worth the buy
Hahah.. I laughed when I read your post
lol babysee and angle_mommy... your hbs all so farnie! 精价上涨 really make me lol!! but shouldn't they be happy? since men are always the ones who want the most activity... now we request.. they should be happy!!
or maybe they are happy but hide it secretly dun reveal their excitement =PHi doodoo123, this month I more active. start BD on alternate days starting from CD12 for 1.5 week. My hb almost died
i also planned to do tt! wanted to start CD7 and for 2 weeks!! lol. but suay suay hb suddenly went on medication and cannot bd for the rest of the cycle. HAIZ
chocopiggie
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Blur02: hihi!!! U forgot about me le... sad sad... haha, just kidding! How're u!?? Time flies so fast!!
My AF supposedly to report today but so far no sight of it yet... I'll give 2 more days of waiting before testing ba... cuz got a feeling it'll report anytime soon..
My AF supposedly to report today but so far no sight of it yet... I'll give 2 more days of waiting before testing ba... cuz got a feeling it'll report anytime soon..
hopeful_mum
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last time my gynae taught me to bd every alternate day. then first time I strike liao, but end up miscarriage.
coz I hav long cycles, abt 34-40days. so he ask me to start from CD12 to CD 20.
so you count, actually bd abt 5 times only mah. shd be okay one.
if your cycle is 30 days or less, you start earlier, maybe cd 8 to cd16 or cd 18.
coz I hav long cycles, abt 34-40days. so he ask me to start from CD12 to CD 20.
so you count, actually bd abt 5 times only mah. shd be okay one.
if your cycle is 30 days or less, you start earlier, maybe cd 8 to cd16 or cd 18.
angel_mommy
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so anybody knows about the zhu sheng niang niang ting which I asked...?
Jeslyn83, I heard of it but never tried b4 and don't know how it goes.. Btw, are u still seeing gyne to follow up on your low egg count? Jia you okie, we all ladies here are also trying our very best.. Hope you BFP soon too
angel_mommy
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well u need to pray, then say how long u married, age , where u stay and hope for a baby. also need to promise like u will also go back and return how mnay eggs etc. u can ask the uncle there, he will teach u.Jeslyn83, I heard of it but never tried b4 and don't know how it goes.. Btw, are u still seeing gyne to follow up on your low egg count? Jia you okie, we all ladies here are also trying our very best.. Hope you BFP soon too
hopeful_mum
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woo cool. keeping fingers crossed for u!!Chocopiggie, no AF means got hope!
angel_mommy
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Maybe u wanna consider seeing gyne again and perhaps gyne can help to rectify any hindrances that could be preventing u from getting a BFP.. Or can see a TCM to tiao your body
tink main ting is the low egg count in bank reserve ba, already accepted the fact, bt will jz bd naturally lo...no like calculate when la, oval la..
i don tink i gt the determination to keep continuing seeing TCM to tiao, beside hub already mentioned will go try IVF see how
i don tink i gt the determination to keep continuing seeing TCM to tiao, beside hub already mentioned will go try IVF see how
newmummy00
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Can buy separate ah just don't select
Those with bundle. Smh as in the singapore motherhood site? Oh nvr explore before here. If cheaper than u just buy direct from smh.
Basically just go with which is the cheapest
sorry for the questions but both of us are new to buying on amazon so not sure how to go about getting the free shipping. I also went in to look and when click on free global shipping, only the bundle set appears. there is no other option to buy separately. can just click on the separate ones (those not under free global shipping) and can still get the free shipping? tks for all the help!
Is the SMH one the website that babysee share in this thread?
yes, SMH is the Singapore motherhood site here and the one babysee quoted. went in to look see and normal price is about the same as the bundle from amazon but now got 10% off so quite attractive. also think ready stock and no need to wait for 2-3 weeks shipping from amazon. maybe I get my friend to check it out coz amazon seems a bit complicated for us and we a bit blur one! lol...
hopeful_mum
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actually don't need to click on the globalsaving one. u can just click separate, as long as its over 125 usd, sold and fulfilled by amazon can already.sorry for the questions but both of us are new to buying on amazon so not sure how to go about getting the free shipping. I also went in to look and when click on free global shipping, only the bundle set appears. there is no other option to buy separately. can just click on the separate ones and still eligible for the free shipping? tks for all the help!
yes, SMH is the Singapore motherhood site here and the one babysee quoted. went in to look see and normal price is about the same as the bundle from amazon but now got 10% off so quite attractive. also think ready stock and no need to wait for 2-3 weeks shipping from amazon. maybe I get my friend to check it out coz amazon seems a bit complicated for us and blur blur one! lol...
then before u pay u can see at check out if u are eligible for the free delivery, if not eligible u just delete. u try explore first bah.
I just checked its very expensive from amazon.
hopeful_mum
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Check it out. If ships from amazon and sold by amazon the price is higher. So more ex. That time I got it at 125 I think. The price fluctuates also. Then with this u can get the free shipping
If you select other seller than u won't get free shipping
But u also need the test sticks. If can have bundle and cheap then u can consider.
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