Hi Ladies, I've been mia for some time. Been very bothered abt things happening at home.
Coral, your HB very good leh you must be very thankful for having someone like him and dont ever think of leaving this world ok.
Share with you gals, what has been happening in my life recently....
My elder sis got married last year to someone that my parents had introduced and she is leaving in her in-laws hse.
My sis discovered that her HB is having an affair and that was why he had come home late like wee hours in the mornings for a few months.
She confronted her HB and wanted him to stop the late nights. her HB said that she was controlling him and he wants to leave her. So my sis wanted to know if he was seeing someone else. His reply was so what if I was, what can you do abt it. My sis broke her leg, 6 mths into her marriage and was advised by the docs to not get preggie for at least a yr or till the leg heals. This her MIL knows and was concerned abt it. my sis told her MIL that HB thinks I am controlling him when I asked why he comes late. Even her MIL said I dont think my son is doing anything wrong. My sis later found a photo in his wallet and also a love letter to that woman. He also has been avoiding my sis and has stoped talking to her for since Apr this year and that was the last time they BDed as well. That woman is a divorcee with 2 kids and is working in this same office as him. He has been spending even his weekends at her pl. My sis told her MIL that she wants to buy a flat of her own so that she can spend more time with her HB but her MIL shouted and cursed my sis and said that my sis is separating mother and son. Even the elder BIL who stays with his parents called my sis names and threatend to call my dad to fetch her back. My sis soon found out all abt the other woman, and cld not take it at her in-laws pl and decided to leave that house. Now she is staying with me. Yesterday, her MIL called a mutual friend and told that my sis and wanted to move out with her son, trying to separate mother and child, my sis goes clubing ( infact my sis hates pubs, there was only once she went home late, when my mum was brought to A&E at was discharged from observation ward at 2am in the morning.) Her MIL turned that incident to everyday coming home late. Moreover, my sis with her broken leg, how can she go dancing? so stupid isnt it. Also, her MIL said that my sis cant conceive at all and my parents did not disclose this truth and got them married. She called my sis a barren. My sis had all along had problem with her irregular mens but doc said that she only has hormone inbalance and shld be able to conceive. Her MIL took wat the doc said when my sis broke her leg, as in not to get preggie till leg heals to not being able to conceive. My sis intends to file for divorce and is totally heart broken. Her leg has not even healed, now she has to heal her broken heart as well.....
I am so sad for her. Even in this modern society there are pple like that.