Serina & Sharon,(& to all u ladies who are doing so much more than me),
1stly,i salute all of u.getting preggy is already so difficult,so tedious,yet all of u can soldier on with O strips,BBT etc.hats off to u.i don't even have time to test in the morn.i run off as fast as i can,& i'm still late for wk.haha.the morn appts at gynae are also taking a toll on me.
2ndly,i've used O stips only once.bought house brand fr Guardian.my hpt also fr guardian.never used clearblue coz so EX! haha.me a bit cheapo lah,but all these kits are so accurate these days,even the housebrands.for 1st pregnancy,i tested a few times ,only 1 line.then i got preg & tested (using guardian brand),2 lines showed up immediately.so quite accurate.if preg,sure have 2 lines showing up immediately.i tested the day after i missed my period,& the line was faint,but it was definitely there.coz i've seen no line b4,so in comparison,the faint line is quite obvious.
muski,
no discomfort doesn't mean not pregnant.i can't really rem my 1st preg symptoms,but i think i had no symptoms at all.juz like normal.was talking to hubby one day abt getting preg,then realised period didn't come,so went to confirm on calendar.
ceraine,
my hubby's swimmers also not very strong leh.i think it's normal,u know? i think it's more normal for to have a huge quantity of average swimmers & only a few rapid swimmers.if u read the forum,a lot of hubbies have average or lousy sperm qualities.haha.be consoled.at least u know u got pregnant naturally the 1st time,so there is always hope.this is wat i tell myself.don't know if i'm lying to myself.if u compare me & u,u're a bit better coz u had a m/c.i had a stillbirth.so in terms of body being screwed up by having a baby,i think my body is more screwed up than urs.u get wat i mean? i went thru' the whole birth.i assume u had drainage & currettage.
i've learned to take things a lot easier already.i think change in hubby's attitude has also encouraged me a bit.i don't have to put up with his shit,juz in case he withhold bd.now,both of us a co-operating with each other.i don't know wat brought abt the change in attitude,not sure if it's due to the long wait since the stillbirth (no gd news yet) that he's feeling the 'strain' too.i always believe (though i'm not a christian) god give babies to families he think deserves it & can provide a good enviroment for the babies.with hubby & me quarrelling all the time previously,it's not the best enviroment to nurture a baby.
I had my IUI #2 done today.doc charged me 1/2 price.i was so happy.haha.i'm in the med field also,i think that's y.hmm...no harm having it done a few more times,huh? haha.of course i hope it will be successful this time.
life is so ironic,isn't it,girls? last few mths,hubby was on cordyceps,i fin my entire box of pre-pregnancy vit i bought fr aus.no luck with IUI.had mid cycle bleeding.i guessed my hormones went bonkus.even took 2 days off after iui.this time,had a scare,no follicle on day 12.but luckily day 16,follicle 18mm! suddenly appeared & grew so quickly.hubby didn't take supp coz he said it's making his pimples pop out like crazy.we abstained only 1 day,his swimmers not much different fr last cycle,where we abstained for 3 days! god is really testing us.even vol produced for iui also not very much different.
relieved this cycle no mid cycle bleeding.totally surprised.iui went well.ovulated on the left side,which is the side of my larger bi-furcated uterus.this is the funny thing.i knew i have a vaginal septum.a 3D scan showed i have a bi-furcated uterus.a HSG (done this cycle) showed my left uterus is larger than the right.so the pic is finally coming together.it's no wonder when we bd,i can feel different sensations on the right & left,depending on where hubby enters.he can't feel a difference.i wasn't sure until iui today.i sort of guided hubby this few times we bd,but i cannot be sure if my theory is correct.so during iui today,gynae inserted into the right side.i didn't feel correct,so i told him,coz i'm ovulating on the left.swimmers deposited in the right,with the septum,almost guarenteed unsuccessful.gynae inserted on the left,i said it feels 'correct',& he confirmed,coz he can see the septum.so all these while,it was a 'mechanical' failure.if i ovulate on right,hubby has to go on right side.& only i can tell.it took me so long (almost 12 mths!)to find out.wonder if i'll get pregnant a bit easier now.but must always scan coz i need to know which side i ovulate.
*sigh* this is life,isn't it? but now with my post grad studies,at least there is a bit of distraction for me.