Hi stevie
Hope Alexis get well soon. I'm also struggling with 2 kids at home while HB overseas frm sun nite til tml nite. First was my gal, then pass to my boy n myself.. Haiz.. I had so little rest past 2 days and still have to 'work' around the house the nxt day. Luckily today brought to PD, and the med makes him slp better so I can get sum slp earlier... And he also dun wan solids, jus milk.. =( heart pain rite?
Mossie bites
So far, I dun haf tt at home. Maybe also cos high floor? Must be so poor thing to see the red bites swellin up. Do take care and be careful cos quite a few dengue cases around.
Amelia
So need to peel skin for peppers? I didn't do tt when I did the pasta sauce for my boy le. Alamak... And I am plannin to give him tml. Do u think it's ok, since it's purée?
Alluring
I am nt sure how much u wanna sacrifice for ur family at the expense of ur high flying career. But I can tell u it's gonna to be tough if u are plannin for #2 with such close gap, without any family support.. I, a SAHM, with a 30month old gal & 8month boy. I am already struggling and HB fly very often so many times, I am alone with them. Lucky for me, my grandma stays with me, in case if emergency arises.
I gave up my job, possibilities of furthering my HR studies. Cos to me, I rather be a SAHM with my kids and I do not seek achievement thru my career but at home. So it really depends a lot on ur expectations. Actually it means no harm if u wait a couple if years for #2 if u really can't manage at tis moment for #2 to come along. As long as u r goin for more kids, I dun think u r being unfair to ur HB.
Having kids is a commitment and if u go for #2 when u r not ready, I feel it will lead to a lot of problems tt u n HB might come to. So really have to make plans. IFC or CC is not a solution, there wil come a time if ur kids are sick, who is gonna take leave and all.. Must really think properly and not let kids affect the relationship... Jia you...