ann -- good.. u got an understanding MIL... my MIL is the typical TVB/Korean drama ones... lol.. but my bb girl will be taken care by my FIL. He took care of my niece and nephew since young and MIL goes to work...
I jus discussed with my mom on my confinement matters... she wants me to stay at her place cause she can cook for me.. but it told her that my hubby will go her place take food from her and bring back to my place for the 1st 2 weeks cause hubby will be on leave. subsequently for the next 2 weeks, i will be ordering confinement tingkat to eat.
i remember my last confinement after my stillbirth, i was at my own place (im stay with ILs) and MIL did not cook confinement food for me and i had to eat maggie me on some days even. so this time round, i will order tingkat althou its quite costly.
then FIL and hubby will help me shower bb girl. Hubby was washing my clothes during my last confinement so his actually quite "skilled" to help me with my confinement.
I hope all these plans will turn out well. Anyway, my MIL wont help me one la... she will think everything is not necessary.. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]
but when hubby at home, she will be very enthu about me.. but when hubby not at home.. she will bo chap me... my hubby knows about this but bo pian. we had to tahan until we get a flat...
appreciate and treasure ur MIL... not every MIL is understanding one...
I jus discussed with my mom on my confinement matters... she wants me to stay at her place cause she can cook for me.. but it told her that my hubby will go her place take food from her and bring back to my place for the 1st 2 weeks cause hubby will be on leave. subsequently for the next 2 weeks, i will be ordering confinement tingkat to eat.
i remember my last confinement after my stillbirth, i was at my own place (im stay with ILs) and MIL did not cook confinement food for me and i had to eat maggie me on some days even. so this time round, i will order tingkat althou its quite costly.
then FIL and hubby will help me shower bb girl. Hubby was washing my clothes during my last confinement so his actually quite "skilled" to help me with my confinement.
I hope all these plans will turn out well. Anyway, my MIL wont help me one la... she will think everything is not necessary.. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]
but when hubby at home, she will be very enthu about me.. but when hubby not at home.. she will bo chap me... my hubby knows about this but bo pian. we had to tahan until we get a flat...
appreciate and treasure ur MIL... not every MIL is understanding one...