Oh.. just now I was at in law place having dinner. My MIL actually wanna discuss about the plan of taking care of BB. My hubby say confinement will be done at our own house which my MIL say ok. Then after that BB will be taken care by my FIL and maid when I started working. MIL will buy a cot and put it in their room for BB to sleep and the maid will sleep in the living room. I told MIL that I would bring BB home at night and bring back in the morning. MIL say dun really need to.. can let BB stay and just bring home on weekend. Then hubby say see how when BB is born, but will bring home at night to take care and see how.
I think MIL can sense me being uncomfortable with BB staying with them most of the week and I only bring BB back on weekend. After dinner when sitting in the living room, she told me that even if only bring back weekend, BB will still be close to me cos I am her mummy afterall. Then I told my MIL that maybe I am used to seeing my mum always bringing us home at night.. so I also wish to do the same thing for BB. But I told MIL if I really have to work late (cos I do events at times), I won't bring BB home. But if I end work at normal time, I wish I can bring BB home. Just wanna be close to him. Luckily MIL quite understanding, she say that's ok. No problem.
Actually I also feel bad if they have to even take care of BB at night. Maid daytime have to do housework and look after BB, nighttime I think she deserve a good rest. Or else daytime how to look after BB? FIL also the same. MIL has to work.. cannot expect her to wake up in the night to take care of BB.. next day how to concentrate at work? And my hubby's sisters too.. one working and one studying. Not nice for them to suffer when me and hubby sleep like a pig nicely in bed at night ma.