hi LBB,
lets be alittle more objective can? i dun approve abortion too, nor i'm supportive of it, but i have acted as a supportive role for several youths who went thru it before to kw dat without having us to tell them, the emotional pain do linger even yrs after...
many times, it's not dat they dun feel a thing abt it, being cruel, heartless etc, but it is juz at dat period in time, they felt dat it was the best solution or even the only way out for them.
yah, i kw it may sound stupid or even ridiculous for some of us. but aft seeing the hurt & emotional guilt etc they went thru, i can easily say dat though it is easy for us to condemm them, u will never understand wat they went thru unless u exp it yrself.
i do not condone abortion, but this does not mean dat i cannot be more understanding towards those who went thru it. lets not judge anyone here k?
everyone does make mistakes in life, but i'm sure dat those who had abortion before in this thread had learnt a hard mistake (one which no one else who never been thru it before can never understand) and wish dat they have never done it before, so lets be more understanding towards them can?
without having u & or me or anyone else condemning them, i'm sure dat they oradie feel bad enuf deep inside their hearts abt it. hence, please, even if we failed to understand them, lets be alittle slower to judge & condemn them k? this thread is not abt abortion, so lets keep it this way. we're all here for one another...