Dear Ladies,
I'm not trying yet cos hubby is stationed overseas. His assignment will be at least for another year. Initially, we intend to start after he has complete his assignment and back to Spore. But lately, I've been pestering him not to wait that long cos I feel that I'm aging....(in my late 20s liao). Also, I can't help but feel hubby is quite stressed at work, so may affect fertility. Aiyah, I'm very pessimistic lah...
He's coming back for holiday next month and I thought of visiting a gynae with him, probably also do a pre-natal test at the same time. I also find my menstruation cycle a bit weird. Most of the months, I have mid-cycle spotting and when it happens, my cycle will be lengthened for another week (35 days or longer). In certain months, rarely though, it'll be 28 days cycle without mid-cycle spotting. Also, I experience on-off cramping about 5 days before my menses are here. And for the past half year or so, I'll have spotting for 1st 2 days before I see fresh red blood during my menstruation. So, I can't help but feel my reproduction system has deteriorated... haha...
I was worried initially that I'm not ovulating cos one of the factors for mid-cycle spotting is non-ovulation. But I've tried taking my BBT temperature for the past few months and the trend shows that I'm ovulating... phew....
Now, I just hope to find a good gynae to look into my case and answer some of my questions. Linda, I've got the list of Gynaes from you the previous time. Thanks! But I don't know which one is good leh. So now, I'm trying to find out from the mums-to-be which Gynae they're visiting but not much response leh... Which gynae are you gals visiting?