Ann: that restaurant really a headache.
Tinkle bell: try bringing bb outdoor feeding? Or totally quiet environment, dimmed lights, fan facing bb, or drink on ur lap, seated 45 degree to drink, etc.
My bb like to drink lying down,though its dangerous, but do choke once in awhile. So have to react fast to carry bb up. Otherwise my bb like to be carried in her sarong sling, lying dwn to drink.
Not encouraging u to do this but if doing so, u got to react fast when bb get choke.