Mrs Long - Now, you can pump 50-60ml, is it per breast or both? Don't worry.. The flow will come.. Initially, I was also super depressed as my colostrum came is only at Day 3 with 1 duct.. Baby by then was demanding 30ml per feed and it was impossible for me to follow up on that.. It was only at Day 4 that I started pumping 20ml for both breasts.. But, still not enough.. I break down n cried n told myself that I need to produce more milk for BB.. And, naturally, that trigger a few let downs and subsequently, my milk flow came and I was pumping 40ml per breast at Day 6.. By Day 8, I can pump 60ml and now, I can pump 80-100ml per 3 hrs interval.. The flow will come but you need to relax and have a good atmosphere when pumping.. Sometimes, I also look at baby and close my eyes to trigger let downs.. That helps too, initially.. Producing breast milk, is like a marathon, you need to tell yourself that you can do it, and be persistent.. If you are pumping, try to pump for at least 45mins to increase the supply.. Play around with the cycle and the suction.. For me, I realise, I prefer cycle at medium, as it's slower thus, enabling my breast to compress more milk out.. I will start with the most comfortable suction and increase it as it goes along.. SOmetimes, I will also just dial up and down and that also trigger more flow..
Hope that help.. Sorry for the long post..
Meanwhile can pat pat her back to burp/massage the back.