jas,
oh dear.. is it bcoz he feel that didi has taken too much attention from u? gal, did u buy a gift to dayan when danson was borned? if not, maybe u buy him a toy or somethg he likes to him, tell him it's a gift from didi, coz didi loves gor gor very much and wans to give this to him.. and assure him that mama loves both gor gor n didi equally, and u sure dayan loves didi too right? maybe he will dote on and be more gentle to didi then? hope it helps abit..
regarding danson's eye.. maybe u monitor for one or two days, see got any discharge or consistent redness or not.. better being him see doc if u unsure.. hugs.. hope it's nothing serious..
ecookie,
hard to say one leh.. last time hubby and me also had very tiring trip to shanghai, eveyday shopped till dropped, but hor, still can kena zq loh.. wahaha...