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<font size="+2"><font color="ff0000">EMOTIONAL NEEDS</font></font>
<font size="+1">* Need for love & Security </font>
LOVE
- Giving unconditional love, saying I Love you daily etc.
- Parents love each other
- Parents are role models to the Child
SECURITY
- Routine will children a sense of security
- Stable care-giving
- Mean what you say & keep your promise
- Never ever let the Child lose trust in You!
- Consistency of Rules
<font size="+1">* Need for New Experiences </font>
- Using Senses -> can learn & remember better
- Need for Play & recreation, from play a Child can learn more
- Never be too over-stimulate a Child, it can affect his sleep & decision making in the future
- Find their interest & exploit their potential
<font size="+1">* Need for Responsibilities </font>
- must be on par with the age & maturity of the child
- responsible for their schoolwork, play, homework, taking care of personal needs
- Contribute to the maintenance of the household , etc picking up rice on the floor after every meals
- Learn how to pack their own schoolbag
- As a Parent, never take over the Childs responsibility!
- Draw boundaries
- Praise the Child when he fulfill his responsibilities
<font size="+1">* Need for Praise & Recognition</font>
- award them with praise when they achieve something
- Never compare your child with others
- Dont always pay attention only when they are doing notty acts, praise/encourage them in the most unexpected moments
<font size="+1"><font color="0000ff">*** Once needs are satisfied, a Child will not think of anti-social ways to seek a Parents attention!! ***</font></font>