babymilk,
I feel for you. Thyler is the same way.
I really hate the way the teachers ostracize him cos of his dramatic movements. I know he is active. But I certainly feel that active doesn't equate mischief lor. He doesn't hurt anyone, he doesn't spoil anything, his intention is just to play. Unlike some kid sit one corner for nothing take things and poke people...I feel that the childcare dunno how to appropriately handle Thyler and channel his enormous amount of energy towards something more constructive.
And the parents worse. complain non stop. When thyler fight with a girl cos she scratch him on the face, the mother complain lor.. say got bruise lah, got mark la. I told her kids are kids.. I don't work in the childcare so how can i ensure they dun fight? And she say 3rd time liao lor! And i told her.. when your daughter scratches my son til bleed or hit did i say anything? I dun, cos i feel that kids are kids. But the mother keep telling the girl to stay away from thyler la thyler notti lah until the girl herself paranoid. The cc teacher say even thyler sit next to her nothing she also say "thyler beat me" dun you all think the parents are to blame more than the kids? They are the ones who teach their kids to 'lie' in a bid to 'protect' themselves. They are the ones who out of protectiveness for the child sow seeds of paranoia and teach their kids to bear grudges. So instead of a clear mind the kid is influenced by the parent that this fella is bad therefore i complain against him whenever i can. So unnecessary and I feel it taints the child's judgment and create a self fulfilling prophecy. This over protectiveness really impedes the child's social development lor. And what i mention is only 1 example of it.
Sorry everyone for the long lor sor rant.. But i really cannot take it. If you dun allow your kids to learn and try and make mistakes, how can you blame you kids when they are older and still dun understand? Eg. If you dun allow your kids to learn to say feed themselves cos o the mess it may create, dun blame them when they cannot feed themsleves properly even at primary 1 right? hiaz.
I feel for you. Thyler is the same way.
I really hate the way the teachers ostracize him cos of his dramatic movements. I know he is active. But I certainly feel that active doesn't equate mischief lor. He doesn't hurt anyone, he doesn't spoil anything, his intention is just to play. Unlike some kid sit one corner for nothing take things and poke people...I feel that the childcare dunno how to appropriately handle Thyler and channel his enormous amount of energy towards something more constructive.
And the parents worse. complain non stop. When thyler fight with a girl cos she scratch him on the face, the mother complain lor.. say got bruise lah, got mark la. I told her kids are kids.. I don't work in the childcare so how can i ensure they dun fight? And she say 3rd time liao lor! And i told her.. when your daughter scratches my son til bleed or hit did i say anything? I dun, cos i feel that kids are kids. But the mother keep telling the girl to stay away from thyler la thyler notti lah until the girl herself paranoid. The cc teacher say even thyler sit next to her nothing she also say "thyler beat me" dun you all think the parents are to blame more than the kids? They are the ones who teach their kids to 'lie' in a bid to 'protect' themselves. They are the ones who out of protectiveness for the child sow seeds of paranoia and teach their kids to bear grudges. So instead of a clear mind the kid is influenced by the parent that this fella is bad therefore i complain against him whenever i can. So unnecessary and I feel it taints the child's judgment and create a self fulfilling prophecy. This over protectiveness really impedes the child's social development lor. And what i mention is only 1 example of it.
Sorry everyone for the long lor sor rant.. But i really cannot take it. If you dun allow your kids to learn and try and make mistakes, how can you blame you kids when they are older and still dun understand? Eg. If you dun allow your kids to learn to say feed themselves cos o the mess it may create, dun blame them when they cannot feed themsleves properly even at primary 1 right? hiaz.
