pcs
yah, i was so very *entertained* by her act!
angelia
theres so many things that quinn did will set me thinking "WHAT IF....." so i just need to let him explore when i'm around then. becos i know theres no way i can STOP all these so all i have to do is just to make sure i am there and hes aware of wat hes doing.
berry
ha!!!! they very flexi hor, can have PLAYGROUND anywhere wan
yah, i also believe the theory but theres time when quinns blur and accident happens, but again i feel its still good to let them have more room for exploration and such and again, each time my heart really feel the squeeze and all i do is pray hard tat things wont go wrong and watch him closely.
and for the DISCIPLINE topic, sometimes i really soooo.... tired with all those "quinn, u see...." "quinn, please dun as u will...." "quinn, thats not the correct way..." and when i reach the peak of this, i will simply let go too. especially when i dun feel good *example like when im not well or mood swing* i will either care off him to my PIL since i know i cant PERFORM and while hes there, he will be happier with them to play with and without me around nagging non-stop. and for me, i can sort of break free from that situation and have some space for thinking. but i will only do this when im very very very very....... tired *as in mentally* but most of the time what i will do is i will just concentrate in QUALITY bonding and as for how can i do it at that point of time is i will try too SEE THE GOOD, IGNORE THE EVIL. and from there i can actually see things from a different view. i can even feel how fortunate to have him.
so i guess sometimes we really have to break away from the situation and step back. hubby will ask me how is it possible to do that when ones is being put in that situation *kids doing all the wrong things, whine for the whole day and such* so what i told him is *WE JUST GOT TO TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND TRY* oh yah, i also discover a way of changing our toddlers mood from SOUR to SWEET. whenever quinn woke up cranky and all, i will say "MORNING" to him with the whole of my heart! using very bright and happy tone. he will still continue BUT me too, with all those good good vibe and usually he will bounce back to a happy boy by noon!
and i even feel so very proud and happy that with my afford and method, hes able to get out of it quick. i believe no toddler actually enjoy their own NEGATIVE cycle too, just that they simply dun know how to bounce back.