Jannbaby: thank u so much for the enlightenment, I will try hard gimmi a bit of time.
The hardest issue here is all wifey n my frnds ard are either blessed with 1 boy n 1 gal and closed factory young or most of them did their marriage in a haste cos they shotgunned and held their marriage n banquet @ 3-4months pregnant stage, else blessed with 3-4kids, we realli can't sense any1 ard us having ttc issues at all.
1 close frnd of us recently jus held their 4th kid baby shower n invited us, she told wifey wanna gv birth beta do it Earli cos itz more n more taxing when women get older. She n wifey same age both Earli 30s. At that pt of time, we are still grinning within us cos at 7weeks where everything seems positive for us, who would have know less than 1week time, all is gonee!!
So sorry to rant here again, hai.. I'm basically a quite pessimistic person same goes for wifey too. Trying n trying beri hard to get over this painful scenario still realli so sorry ladies.
Thor
Hi ladies
After much struggling and trying. It's really over between me and my hub. It has been a mental torture period for me despite trying so hard and yet still gonna end this 6 years relationship. Mayb that's why God didn't give us a child, they probably see this coming. I'm gonna stay very strong and be selfish for myself wanting to be happy and enjoy the life I should deserve. Sorry to be out of topic here.
Actually if under nuh pte if doing completed test for recurrent miscarriages is ard $2k already.
If get referral letter u will get appt to go G clinic den from there they will arrange u to recurrent dept only gynae there will arrange all tests for u but u might need to wait up to 4 mths to recurrent unit.
Or u can try a to just ask poly refer to rheumatology dept for just antibody test. Some dr from a there will order all the test they feel require other than antibody then it can cut short ur wait.
Tmc might not know the completed test as they not work as recurrent unit in nuh.
yes we wont be able to choose the gynae. for recurrent unit they usually only see ppl with min 3 miscarriages, but i know some ladies also managed to get referral letter after 2 mc. but the wait will be longer.Hi Hope, if get a referral letter frm polyclinic means we can't get to choose the gynae tat we wan? Currently, I'm seeing the Endocrinology & Haematology dept in NUH. They are the one who told me tat I hv the auto immune disorders... tats y I tot of taking the antibodies test to check further before the next ttc journey... the gynae oso told me it will be good to do the antibodies test given my complicated health conditions.... but the high costs are kinda stopping us... tats y I'm checking if we can get any form of subsidy for the tests...
Go with what ur heart tells u toMy lady boss ask me to ignore him as she explain that he might be afraid to face it so chose to ignore. Hais she don't support the idea of separating. She just ask me to ignore him too and move on see how.
Yup cannot choose dr but if u wish to go recurrent unit most of the time u will c same gynae.Hi Hope, if get a referral letter frm polyclinic means we can't get to choose the gynae tat we wan? Currently, I'm seeing the Endocrinology & Haematology dept in NUH. They are the one who told me tat I hv the auto immune disorders... tats y I tot of taking the antibodies test to check further before the next ttc journey... the gynae oso told me it will be good to do the antibodies test given my complicated health conditions.... but the high costs are kinda stopping us... tats y I'm checking if we can get any form of subsidy for the tests...
I'm like tearing while typing my reports I just feel.very not ok. Colleague on mc today so I can't take leave. I am really struggling
May I ask where is TSB?
yes we wont be able to choose the gynae. for recurrent unit they usually only see ppl with min 3 miscarriages, but i know some ladies also managed to get referral letter after 2 mc. but the wait will be longer.
having said cannot choose gynae, im paying sub rate to see fixed gynae, coz high risk gynae only. its impt if u really have nk cells, so must check properly before u attempt ttc. this si to prevent further heartache.
not sure if the same dept can do such blood tests for u since u are already under subsidy? becox for the recurrent loss unit, the ppl we see is also a Rheumatologist - Dr Shelia
im not sure if u are under the recurrent loss unit. Assoc Consultant name? is she a gynae? Dr Anita Kale?Hi hopeful_mum,
I just went to NUH yst, through referral letter from polyclinic. Met up with an Assoc Consultant, collected 4months supply of baby aspirin, vit D and folic acid. No further tests recommended as according to her, i have alr done most at dr sheila clinic.
My next appt is 4 months later. Not sure is with recurrent unit. But i told the nurse to book for me while she's arranging my appointment. Is this the correct protocol to the recurrent unit?
I'm only planning for baby end of the year after my vacation. But i'm starting the medication, as i have high antibodies level and vit D deficiency.
im not sure if u are under the recurrent loss unit. Assoc Consultant name? is she a gynae? Dr Anita Kale?
same i got my referral letter and went to see in jul. then waited and see in aug/sep i think. took blood test. given me 3 mths supply of what u were given. then i got a chem preg in dec. and i see them again in jan, continue giving me the same meds, plus prednisolone and duphaston to be taken once pregnant.
then i tested positive in mar this year. i have been taking their meds since day one, last year some days i will skip. but since my chem preg i take daily without fail. i believed it helped me with my current pregnancy.
by right high antibodies, they will give u steroids (prednisolone) to be on standby. unless they have other plans for u.
ya just do a check. i rem the clinic short form shd be PLC. u check on ur apt card.I didn't get to see her. They told me polyclinic made a mistake and i see only normal gynae.
No.They didn't give me other medication. In fact, the medication was based on what Dr Sheila has written for me on my test results when I see her at her pvt clinic in Feb. I brought along all my test results to show the gynae yst.
During booking for appointment, i told the nurse i want to see the gynae from recurrant unit. Not sure they arrange for me. I don't want to visit again and meet the normal gynae coz i know i need the right team for my existing condition. Perharps, i will call up to check tomo.
verbal and mental torture is also bad enough. this is also one type of abuse. u just take care, don't think so much for now. go do some mani and pedi.Mine is more like verbal and mental torture. Working in the same company but he's treating me like stranger.
Mine is more like verbal and mental torture. Working in the same company but he's treating me like stranger.
Mine is more like verbal and mental torture. Working in the same company but he's treating me like stranger.
Praying for you too! Don't worry too much! This time round got all the doctor and specialist to help you thruMy hcg result will out in 2 hours time n I will be seeing gynae at 4pm.
My 1st pregnancy kit I did on tue morning I shown faint line den 2 later I tested again in the afternoon the line is very clear n this morning right b4 went out for next hcg test I tested again it shown faint line again. I was too afraid I dunno is this chemical pregn or due to yet to take anything blood not circulating smoothly.
My appetite was v good for the past few days till ytd don really can eat n this morning cant eat much as well even I am hungry.
Really pray for the best.
Please pray for me as well
I really hope for the best. Time seem long b4 4pm. So scarePraying for you too! Don't worry too much! This time round got all the doctor and specialist to help you thru
Don have to c gynae today another hcg on next tue. Another worry lor. Hcg not till the level gyane expected number. Now waiting for dr to call me. Big sweat la.Relax and go have a good lunch with your hub very fast 4pm already
My hcg result will out in 2 hours time n I will be seeing gynae at 4pm.
My 1st pregnancy kit I did on tue morning I shown faint line den 2 later I tested again in the afternoon the line is very clear n this morning right b4 went out for next hcg test I tested again it shown faint line again. I was too afraid I dunno is this chemical pregn or due to yet to take anything blood not circulating smoothly.
My appetite was v good for the past few days till ytd don really can eat n this morning cant eat much as well even I am hungry.
Really pray for the best.
Please pray for me as well
Now there is good n unpredictable news. Good news is hcg increased from 89 to 700 plus from tue morning to sat morning. Unpredictable is dr sheila is the only dr can order ivig for patient but she is out of town w family till end of june. I saw her at novena square 2 w her colleagues on tue afternoon lor. Now really pray hard that prednisolone can dong 1st while waiting for dr sheila to return to sg. Next tue another hcg this time must wish it to raise till 3k den will c gynae on wed or fri.Dun think too much, try to stay calm. Will keep you in prayers! All the best!
Now there is good n unpredictable news. Good news is hcg increased from 89 to 700 plus from tue morning to sat morning. Unpredictable is dr sheila is the only dr can order ivig for patient but she is out of town w family till end of june. I saw her at novena square 2 w her colleagues on tue afternoon lor. Now really pray hard that prednisolone can dong 1st while waiting for dr sheila to return to sg. Next tue another hcg this time must wish it to raise till 3k den will c gynae on wed or fri.
That's good news. Happy for u. Prednisolone shd be able to dongNow there is good n unpredictable news. Good news is hcg increased from 89 to 700 plus from tue morning to sat morning. Unpredictable is dr sheila is the only dr can order ivig for patient but she is out of town w family till end of june. I saw her at novena square 2 w her colleagues on tue afternoon lor. Now really pray hard that prednisolone can dong 1st while waiting for dr sheila to return to sg. Next tue another hcg this time must wish it to raise till 3k den will c gynae on wed or fri.
Now otw to clinic for jab. Got one brown spot on panty liner. Just out of sudden vagina there abit pain n brown come in. Sms gyane he want me to go down for jab now. Big sweatThat's good news. Happy for u. Prednisolone shd be able to dong
No worries now go enjoy ur weekend!
Yup same here I told myself same thing.First tri we all live in fear n vy paranoid. My first 3 mths alone I spent almost 5k-6k on gynae fees, hospital n medication / jabs. But I tell myself $ can earn back ...
I also had spotting scare after my 6w scan when I saw the heartbeat. I believed for me, it was the 2times vaginal scan on the same day. Maybe cervix sensitive. But I understand ur fear it's terrible! But I'm sure the jabs will help to stabilise! Jia you and think positive thoughts.Now otw to clinic for jab. Got one brown spot on panty liner. Just out of sudden vagina there abit pain n brown come in. Sms gyane he want me to go down for jab now. Big sweat
Now v hard to think positive plus dr sheila out of town in sg only she can order for ivig for patient.I also had spotting scare after my 6w scan when I saw the heartbeat. I believed for me, it was the 2times vaginal scan on the same day. Maybe cervix sensitive. But I understand ur fear it's terrible! But I'm sure the jabs will help to stabilise! Jia you and think positive thoughts.
No choice try bah. Cox there's nothing else u can do already. Besides worry or thinking positive to have a positive impact. How abt prof mahesh can be order the jab? They are in the same novena clinic right?Now v hard to think positive plus dr sheila out of town in sg only she can order for ivig for patient.
Now waiting at clinic hands shaking lor.......
Proluton jab really super duper pain n I need to had it twice a week till prof feel ok to stop.No choice try bah. Cox there's nothing else u can do already. Besides worry or thinking positive to have a positive impact. How abt prof mahesh can be order the jab? They are in the same novena clinic right?
illNow there is good n unpredictable news. Good news is hcg increased from 89 to 700 plus from tue morning to sat morning. Unpredictable is dr sheila is the only dr can order ivig for patient but she is out of town w family till end of june. I saw her at novena square 2 w her colleagues on tue afternoon lor. Now really pray hard that prednisolone can dong 1st while waiting for dr sheila to return to sg. Next tue another hcg this time must wish it to raise till 3k den will c gynae on wed or fri.
Many thanksill
Will pray hard for you!
Nope ivig can only be taken at nuh n it is under dr sheila's care. She is the only rheumatologiest can order this jab for patient. Ivig is standard cost at $2.5k. Even sub patient also paying the same if they needed.give a hope, why not try going to pte gynae for that ivig? Is it just a jab or? I feel if you don't mind paying some extra for a peace of mind, go get that ivig jab 1st for now then wait for your doc to return this month end then go back to her then..