Support group - Miscarriages
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happysunflower
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<font color="0000ff">Hello gals!</font>
I am home... Went out at 7+ this morning... Now so tired, feel like sleeping
Hi Gardeline,
Not me... I only take red dates drink on and off. Then boil soup with lots of red dates and other herbs.
Hi choo,
How do you wanna lose weight? Excercise? 10kg is a lot ah...
I am home... Went out at 7+ this morning... Now so tired, feel like sleeping
Hi Gardeline,
Not me... I only take red dates drink on and off. Then boil soup with lots of red dates and other herbs.
Hi choo,
How do you wanna lose weight? Excercise? 10kg is a lot ah...
qwer/lyn
i wish i can take pills leh...i did skipping!!and cut down on carbo....
no choice lor...pile on these extra after wedding...and me love food.....
now only lost 2kg...my current pants abit loose liao..cannot imagine i lose another 10kg and need to buy new ones liao...pls give me moral support ok....actually i shdn't have gone on diet/exercise as pp ard me said i shd take a longer break to bu my body...bt i see my figure so fat really no morale...plus wish lose all the fats before start ttc mah...
mei,
hihi!!so some will only have AF after 8weeks?
okok then i dun worry liao!how r u?good news?
i wish i can take pills leh...i did skipping!!and cut down on carbo....
now only lost 2kg...my current pants abit loose liao..cannot imagine i lose another 10kg and need to buy new ones liao...pls give me moral support ok....actually i shdn't have gone on diet/exercise as pp ard me said i shd take a longer break to bu my body...bt i see my figure so fat really no morale...plus wish lose all the fats before start ttc mah...
mei,
hihi!!so some will only have AF after 8weeks?
happysunflower
New Member
qwer,
hee... just now had a nap for a while. Just now got visitor so jumped out of bed suddenly and nearly fainted . Now I am ok already
Think I gave my mum a shock just now cos she's home with me...
choo,
Do you have a plan on what you wanna do to lose weight? Let's say you wanna lose 10kg, but by when? Set a target and work towards it
.
I helped my sis lost 8kg and she gotta change her whole wardrobe. I lost 4kg also gotta change my wardrobe ... kekeke.. but going to buy clothes so satisfying cos everything also can wear
hee... just now had a nap for a while
. Just now got visitor so jumped out of bed suddenly and nearly fainted . Now I am ok already
choo,
Do you have a plan on what you wanna do to lose weight? Let's say you wanna lose 10kg, but by when? Set a target and work towards it
I helped my sis lost 8kg and she gotta change her whole wardrobe. I lost 4kg also gotta change my wardrobe ... kekeke.. but going to buy clothes so satisfying cos everything also can wear
lyn,
Yes have the plan...but hope i can have the determination to do it lor....must do it once and for all and MAINTAIN!!
wow!! u sound like a personal trainer.....how did you help your sis lose so much weight?
I think within 2 months to lose 10kg shouldnt be too demanding right??
Yes have the plan...but hope i can have the determination to do it lor....must do it once and for all and MAINTAIN!!
I think within 2 months to lose 10kg shouldnt be too demanding right??
coralmarine
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Dear Ladies,
Been long long time since I came in. Busy recently. I'm now 1kg away from my target weight, so will continue to work hard. The rest jia you. elmo, hope you have manage to shed some weight too.
Lyn, glad to hear that your life is so fulfilling.
Choo, how late is your AF? If too long better see doc, if within reasonable timing then don worry too much cos stress can dicturb the cycle too.
nydcheez, admire your courage to face it. I think it's good to take folic acid once your confinement over.
Will prob not have time to come in for the next few weeks, rushing my work so as to go on leave from 28 Oct. My hb's in Italy, so will go meet hime there for a short trip after he's done with work. Been alone for the last two weeks already, prob that's one reason why I lost weight.
Take care!
Been long long time since I came in. Busy recently. I'm now 1kg away from my target weight, so will continue to work hard. The rest jia you. elmo, hope you have manage to shed some weight too.
Lyn, glad to hear that your life is so fulfilling.
Choo, how late is your AF? If too long better see doc, if within reasonable timing then don worry too much cos stress can dicturb the cycle too.
nydcheez, admire your courage to face it. I think it's good to take folic acid once your confinement over.
Will prob not have time to come in for the next few weeks, rushing my work so as to go on leave from 28 Oct. My hb's in Italy, so will go meet hime there for a short trip after he's done with work. Been alone for the last two weeks already, prob that's one reason why I lost weight.
Take care!
droopy_eyes
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Hello Ladies,
Wah I long time never come in, how come so quiet?
Wow, congrats coral, did u go on a diet or exercise?
Aiyoh Lyn ah, must becareful u know.
Gardeline, did u see a sinseh? Coz for TCM right, it also depends on your body, whether u belong to the "heaty" or "cooling" type, then u can decide what to take to bu yr body. For me, I am the "heaty" type, I take Ba Zeng n Dang Gui but not too often as these are heaty. These bu the blood. I also take Dong Cong Cao which bu the lungs or liver, I forget, my MIL bought for me so I take loh. Dong Cong Cao is good coz neither heaty nor cooling. Pao Seng also good.
Today at my gynae's I saw a familiar looking bb on the cover of a magazine. Then I saw the name "Cherish", wow Ocean (Where are You?), your gal gal become cover girl liao ah!
Wah I long time never come in, how come so quiet?
Wow, congrats coral, did u go on a diet or exercise?
Aiyoh Lyn ah, must becareful u know.
Gardeline, did u see a sinseh? Coz for TCM right, it also depends on your body, whether u belong to the "heaty" or "cooling" type, then u can decide what to take to bu yr body. For me, I am the "heaty" type, I take Ba Zeng n Dang Gui but not too often as these are heaty. These bu the blood. I also take Dong Cong Cao which bu the lungs or liver, I forget, my MIL bought for me so I take loh.
Dong Cong Cao is good coz neither heaty nor cooling. Pao Seng also good. Today at my gynae's I saw a familiar looking bb on the cover of a magazine. Then I saw the name "Cherish", wow Ocean (Where are You?), your gal gal become cover girl liao ah!
droopy_eyes
New Member
Hi nydcheez n orange 3
So sorry to hear abt yr losses, yes children are gifts from God, I guess we gals here can fully understand that after what we have been through. Do be strong. Like Lyn, I also believe things happen for a reason. Hugz...
So sorry to hear abt yr losses, yes children are gifts from God, I guess we gals here can fully understand that after what we have been through. Do be strong. Like Lyn, I also believe things happen for a reason. Hugz...
droopy_eyes
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By the way, today I had my scan again, I think more of less confirmed bb is a gal, no "gu-gu"
To all TTC, bb dust to all!
To all TTC, bb dust to all!
droopy_eyes
New Member
Thanks Hamasaki! Yeah I can't resist looking out for bb gals' hats this afternoon when I was shopping!
coralmarine
Active Member
Congrats Droopy! Sure got lotsa nice stuff you can buy for little princess.
Droppy, I exercise and also try to eat less oily food, so eat soupy stuff most of the time . I'm very happy for my ah=chievements, hopefulloy, my Italy trip won't cause me to put on weight, all the cheese and pasta.
Hamasaki, no need to miss me I'll be back very soon. A short trip only. It's only that I'm very busy recently so can't log in. In n=Nov, gotta another 8 days working trip to KL, so may have little time to come in chat with you. You take care hor.
Droppy, I exercise and also try to eat less oily food, so eat soupy stuff most of the time . I'm very happy for my ah=chievements, hopefulloy, my Italy trip won't cause me to put on weight, all the cheese and pasta.
Hamasaki, no need to miss me I'll be back very soon. A short trip only. It's only that I'm very busy recently so can't log in. In n=Nov, gotta another 8 days working trip to KL, so may have little time to come in chat with you. You take care hor.
droopy_eyes
New Member
Hi hamasaki n coral
Coral, that's is indeed an achievement! Wah, u n hubby are always travelling.
hamasaki, in the end never, coz did not find one that I really like. I m a very yim cheem shopper, can shop whole day n buy nothing. Hee hee...
Coral, that's is indeed an achievement! Wah, u n hubby are always travelling.
hamasaki, in the end never, coz did not find one that I really like. I m a very yim cheem shopper, can shop whole day n buy nothing. Hee hee...
<font color="0000ff">Hi ladies,</font>
How's everybody today? I'm fine...same old usual me...but juz something frustrating recently and I dunno what is happening....sian....
<font color="119911">Droopy,</font>
Hey...princess ah....good leh...can doll up etc....very different from having a boy one...keke.... My gal since 2 yrs old very 'ai mei'...everyday after I tie her hair or when she wears something pretty, she'll go to her bedroom & see mirror! And also got mummy's heart...keke....
<font color="aa00aa">Lyn,</font>
Yah...like what <font color="ff6000">Hama</font> said, dun jumped up suddenly from the bed lah....take your time to get up. Juz let the visitor wait lor.
How's everybody today? I'm fine...same old usual me...but juz something frustrating recently and I dunno what is happening....sian....
<font color="119911">Droopy,</font>
Hey...princess ah....good leh...can doll up etc....very different from having a boy one...keke.... My gal since 2 yrs old very 'ai mei'...everyday after I tie her hair or when she wears something pretty, she'll go to her bedroom & see mirror! And also got mummy's heart...keke....
<font color="aa00aa">Lyn,</font>
Yah...like what <font color="ff6000">Hama</font> said, dun jumped up suddenly from the bed lah....take your time to get up. Juz let the visitor wait lor.
droopy_eyes
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Morning Ladies,
Qwer, yr gal gal so cute, "ai mei" is woman's "tian xing" mah, so it's ok...hee hee... there will be times we women feel frustrated loh, light exercises never fail to make me feel better. Or maybe can bring yr gal gal go cycling at the beach, can help loosen u up. Take care, yah.
Hamasaki, my due date next year March.
Hi Choo, good to hear yr AF is here. After that, can TTC liao!
Qwer, yr gal gal so cute, "ai mei" is woman's "tian xing" mah, so it's ok...hee hee... there will be times we women feel frustrated loh, light exercises never fail to make me feel better. Or maybe can bring yr gal gal go cycling at the beach, can help loosen u up. Take care, yah.
Hamasaki, my due date next year March.
Hi Choo, good to hear yr AF is here. After that, can TTC liao!
coralmarine
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Droopy, your bb will be born same mth as me1
choo, same here, I intend to go back to original weight before I ttc. Now, I've lost all 5kg and waistline back to pre-preg. So happy. So I may try too ttc from early Jan. If my mental health is ok, too. Jia you! Just to share with you how I lost the weight. I try to eat only fruits before 12pm every morning to help the system detox and I drink lots of water durign thsi time. And the rest of the time I eat soupy stuff and more fish and vege but less meat. I still indulge in my fav chocolate and ice-cream a few time a week. (I used to eat lots daily, so if you're not use to eat lots of such stuff, then try to eat as little as possible). And I do moderate exercise. I swim when I have time and do sit-ups at least 4 times a week plus 1-2 hrs of stretches, also 4+times a weeek.With that I lost 3kg in 2 wks. Hope to hear your good news soon.
choo, same here, I intend to go back to original weight before I ttc. Now, I've lost all 5kg and waistline back to pre-preg. So happy. So I may try too ttc from early Jan. If my mental health is ok, too. Jia you! Just to share with you how I lost the weight. I try to eat only fruits before 12pm every morning to help the system detox and I drink lots of water durign thsi time. And the rest of the time I eat soupy stuff and more fish and vege but less meat. I still indulge in my fav chocolate and ice-cream a few time a week. (I used to eat lots daily, so if you're not use to eat lots of such stuff, then try to eat as little as possible). And I do moderate exercise. I swim when I have time and do sit-ups at least 4 times a week plus 1-2 hrs of stretches, also 4+times a weeek.With that I lost 3kg in 2 wks. Hope to hear your good news soon.
coral,
wow!! congrats to your weight loss!!
must be so good to wear those nicer clothes right?
3kg in 2 weeks???!!wow u so much better than me..me lost 2 kg in 2 weeks...
must buck up liao!!
me cut down a lot on carbo..no bread....no rice...but for noodle..i bit hard for me..cos me like noodle a lot...so breakfast i had eggs or milk,lunch yang tau hau or cereal..dinner eat steamed cauliflower...also do skipping about 1000 per day...
it is so good to see the weight getting lesser and lesser!!
wow!! congrats to your weight loss!!
3kg in 2 weeks???!!wow u so much better than me..me lost 2 kg in 2 weeks...
me cut down a lot on carbo..no bread....no rice...but for noodle..i bit hard for me..cos me like noodle a lot...so breakfast i had eggs or milk,lunch yang tau hau or cereal..dinner eat steamed cauliflower...also do skipping about 1000 per day...
it is so good to see the weight getting lesser and lesser!!
confusedgal
New Member
Hello gals
Droopy - Congrats. U can now shop for your gal gal stuff liao
Mine oso a gal gal leh
btw, when's your due date?
qwer - yo! your gal very cute leh. 2yrs old already want to be mei mei liao. ya! i agree, gal got mummy's heart
Droopy - Congrats. U can now shop for your gal gal stuff liao
qwer - yo! your gal very cute leh. 2yrs old already want to be mei mei liao. ya! i agree, gal got mummy's heart
coralmarine
Active Member
sorry qwer, what happen to you? You still have not recover since the last time you fell ill?
Sorry, been out of touch recently.
choo, ya, it's so great to see how the weight decrease and also when I measure my waist I feel so happy to see the numbers getting smaller. Had felt so hopeless when I just delivered, luckily manage to lose them. But soon, hopefully, i'll put them back on again...for a reason, fo course!
I heard my colleagues daughter who's only 7 wants her undergarment to be coordinated with what ever clothes she wears and I heard she shop as much as her mum on holidays. Even boys are vain too. My colleague say her boy will choose clothes and go fitting rm to try and say mummy I want to buy.
Sorry, been out of touch recently.
choo, ya, it's so great to see how the weight decrease and also when I measure my waist I feel so happy to see the numbers getting smaller. Had felt so hopeless when I just delivered, luckily manage to lose them. But soon, hopefully, i'll put them back on again...for a reason, fo course!
I heard my colleagues daughter who's only 7 wants her undergarment to be coordinated with what ever clothes she wears and I heard she shop as much as her mum on holidays. Even boys are vain too. My colleague say her boy will choose clothes and go fitting rm to try and say mummy I want to buy.
happysunflower
New Member
How are you gals doing? I am so so so tired for the whole day today
<font color="0000ff">Hi choo,</font>
You can follow what coral did
I also like to take yong tau fu... But I dun take the deep fried nor the fishballs. I only take the vegetables and mee hoon
<font color="0000ff">Hi Coral,</font>
Wish you a fantastic trip to Italy with your hubby
Mental health will affect fertility too
<font color="0000ff">Hi nydcheez,</font>
Great to hear that you are recovering well!
<font color="0000ff">Hi droopy,</font>
Congratulations on your baby gal!
<font color="0000ff">qwer, hama,</font>
Yap... I am ok already. I saw doc on Sat
<font color="0000ff">Hi confused,</font>
Congratulations on expecting a gal gal...
happysunflower
New Member
<font color="0000ff">qwer,</font>
Try to stay relax. I think the reason could have been being too stressed up recently.
Dun think too much ok?
<font color="0000ff">coral,</font>
Jia you!
<font color="ff6000">ok gals, I gotta prepare to go out already... Take care gals!</font>
Try to stay relax. I think the reason could have been being too stressed up recently.
<font color="0000ff">coral,</font>
Jia you!
<font color="ff6000">ok gals, I gotta prepare to go out already... Take care gals!</font>
<font color="0000ff">Hi coral,</font>
Oh it's bcos my AF is overdue lah. Then went to see gynae. He did a v-scan n found out the old cyst in the ovary has grown & there is a new cyst beside it. Furthermore I hv endometriosis & adenomyosis. So to conceive is quite difficult. He prescribed me medicine to induce AF & told me to see him again once AF clears. He will then advise me on the solutions.
Pls dun be affected by my case. I'm ok...thanks. I'm going to see another gynae for 2nd opinion.
Oh it's bcos my AF is overdue lah. Then went to see gynae. He did a v-scan n found out the old cyst in the ovary has grown & there is a new cyst beside it. Furthermore I hv endometriosis & adenomyosis. So to conceive is quite difficult. He prescribed me medicine to induce AF & told me to see him again once AF clears. He will then advise me on the solutions.
Pls dun be affected by my case. I'm ok...thanks. I'm going to see another gynae for 2nd opinion.
happysunflower
New Member
<font color="0000ff">Hi qwer,</font>
The endo and adeno condition are diagnosed by the JE physician based on pulse reading rite? In my opinion, I will seek western medical diagnosis in that.
<font color="0000ff">Hi hamasaki,</font>
Thank you... How are you today? Remember to eat healthy meals
good morning ladies!
lyn,
oh..so the way you help your sis lose 8 kg is something similar to wat Coral did?
wow hope i can archieve my goals soon.....wish me luck!
droppy/confused,
Envy you got a girl!!
hope that the next round I am preggie(if i ever) i will expect a girl...i love girls so as to doll them up and girls are more 'tie xin'to parents...
qwer,
Please dun think too much...seek for 2nd opinion.I know it is easier said than done..but please try to relax...wish you luck!
lyn,
oh..so the way you help your sis lose 8 kg is something similar to wat Coral did?
droppy/confused,
Envy you got a girl!!
qwer,
Please dun think too much...seek for 2nd opinion.I know it is easier said than done..but please try to relax...wish you luck!
happysunflower
New Member
Hello choo...
No... not like what coral did. My sis went through juice fasting with supplements.
Dun worry too much.. You will be a mummy one day
No... not like what coral did. My sis went through juice fasting with supplements.
Dun worry too much.. You will be a mummy one day
confusedgal
New Member
hello gals
Lyn n choo - thanks
qwer - oh no! ya! i think u better seek 2nd opinion.
Lyn n choo - thanks
qwer - oh no! ya! i think u better seek 2nd opinion.
coralmarine
Active Member
qwer, hope yur situation will improve soon. Guess now you can only relax and eat healthy food to help improve things.
Hamasaki, glad that you're eating proper meals now.
Thnaks Lyn, I'll jia you.
Choo, cheer up, so many of the ladies here become a Mum, we'll too. We have to believe.
Hamasaki, glad that you're eating proper meals now.
Thnaks Lyn, I'll jia you.
Choo, cheer up, so many of the ladies here become a Mum, we'll too. We have to believe.
ladies, need advice from u. wat is 'an tai' jab? my mom said once my wife confirm pregnant, should go for 'an tai' jab.
Also, as for HCG rise during early pregnancy, Dr said every 2 days, HCG should rise by at least 66% for a definite healthy pregnancy. Is this a hard and fast rule? any of u ladies experience less than 66% rise and still ok?
Also, as for HCG rise during early pregnancy, Dr said every 2 days, HCG should rise by at least 66% for a definite healthy pregnancy. Is this a hard and fast rule? any of u ladies experience less than 66% rise and still ok?
happysunflower
New Member
Hi undiscern,
"an tai" jabs are usually progesterone jabs used for supporting a pregnancy if there's any spotting or bleeding, or history of miscarriage. Not necessary your wife will need the jabs. Do consult a gynae
All the best...
"an tai" jabs are usually progesterone jabs used for supporting a pregnancy if there's any spotting or bleeding, or history of miscarriage. Not necessary your wife will need the jabs. Do consult a gynae