elxir,
sorry to hear wbout your loss. It is not easy, do cry if you want to it helps alot.
Hi Ling,
Thanks, my gynae said it is lack of folic acid or it just happen for no reasons. It will be 1 off case.
Su_yana,
Thanks. I am okay. This 2nd pregnancy loss is much easier than I expected cos since baby abnormal, only decision is to abort it, if bring to the world will be nmore pain.
Hi Jovial,
I guess things just happened. We really have to take it easy. Do take care too
Hi Joanne,
Thanks. I just did dnc this morning. Yesterday was given some pills to dilate the baby to be taken before I sleep yesterday. I was crying on my way to operation. within 1 hr eveything finish. I am okay, in fact I find it relief cos I have shorten my baby suffering. I seen some pictures of baby without skull, they look so poor thing.
No point asking for 2nd opinion cos this is serious deformity, nothing can save it. So might as well end it.
I am doing mini confirment. My hubby cooked fried rice witn eggs and lots of ginger. And tonight will be black vinegar pork. I will drink red date water everyday.
The only difficult part is my sister-in-law is also pregnant, so now i will just try to avoid going to my in-laws 1st.
Office wise, since 2nd time people will know what to do.
Now can only try again after my 2nd or 3rd mense cycle.