hi gals,
passion of christ not open yet and so we went to watch the eye 2. i was so emotional after watching the show. although it's a horror movie (and it's quite scary), it revolves around pregnancy. i don't really understand why they warn pregnant woman not to watch...okay okay, it's gross and scary to think that ghosts are hanging around pregnant women to reincarnate but in the show, that's how baby's life comes about. that is, a ghost must enter the womb for the baby to be born (reincarnation u see but it's predestined who is going to be ur unborn child). so if any pregnant woman is reading this now, better not watch the movie lah.
tears actually welled up in my eyes when i see the scenes where shu qi did ultrasound scans and she could see her baby (at different stages). i was captured by all the scenes showing the pregnant women and how envious i was on them. and when shu qi thought of aborting the child, i was like 'what the heck?'.
when i thought i have recovered emotionally, i actually felt very low after watching the movie. think that crying at times do help us in healing.
curly, my bleeding lasted for only 3 days. the important thing is not the length of bleeding but a clean discharge. ur gynae will ensure it on ur next appointment. do bear with the itch!
i didn't go to work as mine was over cny. but i was out and running about with visiting from day 2 after d&c. think doc gives us long mc more of the emotional recovery than physical. so, if u feel alright, u can go back to work (with ur hubby's blessing). but do remember not to overstrain urself and eat well.
like what java said, testings may not guarantee that you find out the reasons. for my case, gynae suggested testings and we decided to go ahead. he discovered infection but it remains an unknown if the infection causes the m/c. up to hubby and u to decide. but usually, testings are suggested for women with multiple m/c.
tiny, i went back to dr chan for checkup afterall cos he did the d&c for me. i don't really feel paiseh about it although i did wonder if i will go back to him when i discover i m pregnant the next round. the nurses actually wished me luck when i left the clinic! and i feel quite 'pressurised' - in the sense that if i go back and it is a negative one (touch wood), i have let them down! i know i got to be positive but i learn not to take things granted.
think u shld go back to ur gynae. at least, for a checkup. dr chan actually told me to try again for a couple of months. if i still not pregnant, i m to back to see him and he'll help me track my ovulation period. i thought that sounds more stressful. but it may be helpful if we really hope to get pregnant asap.
