Support group - Miscarriages
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joycesprit
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Hi all
Today 2nd liao, guess Ocean has already finished her confinement. Wondering when she's coming back.
And Tiny too? Maybe go pop liao... keke.
Today 2nd liao, guess Ocean has already finished her confinement. Wondering when she's coming back.
Hi Lyn... thank you for sharing those photos =) Indeed all brides are beautiful!! I'm with a private gynae, Dr Lim Teck Chye from Tow Yung Clinic. He does all the other scans for me at every visit... except for the detailed scan which is by another gynae in the same clinic as the other gynae has the better machine 
Yup I agree... must change to something more positive sounding yah?
Java... happy anniversary!!! You may not be in the celebration mood... but one thing for sure is that the relationship has strengthen through the years.
Sum... no worries. I think the family will be even happier if its a girl In-laws are not the conservative type so anything goes. But somehow my MIL and mum prefers daughter... cos can dress her up. So I think I will have to try harder the next time round. I personally would like to have a daughter... but end of the day I'm only concerned if the baby is healthy. The only thing on my mind during the scan was to hear from gynae that everything is normal. I actually forgot about checking the gender while lying there until the gynae zoomed in to show us the baby's penis. I hope your sis-in-law and her baby are doing well. It must have been a traumatising experience for your sis-in-law. But I'm puzzled why the gynae did not detect the mistake in gender even though there were so many scans done in the interim.
Nyny... basically the follow-up is to check if the tissues have been completely cleaned out. If your bleeding continues... do remember to bring this up to the gynae. As for sex... I think it is better to abstain from it until your bleeding stops and your gynae clears you. This is just in case your wound may get infected if it hasn't heal completely.
Folic... have a smooth delievery and congrats in advance
Tubby... isn't it exciting to be able to feel the movement? I can feel the baby moving more for the last few days. Guess I was in the same situation as you 2 weeks ago... when I keep second-guessing myself
Thanks everyone for the well-wishes!! We will be naming our baby Matthias. Actually we have picked out the 2 names... one for girl and one for boy long time ago. In fact Matthias was chosen just one week after my miscarriage. We figured that we need to do some thinking since it took us quite a while to choose the names of our twins. As for the chinese name... that's my dad-in-law's job.
Okie turning in... nite nite.
Yup I agree... must change to something more positive sounding yah? Java... happy anniversary!!! You may not be in the celebration mood... but one thing for sure is that the relationship has strengthen through the years.
Sum... no worries. I think the family will be even happier if its a girl
In-laws are not the conservative type so anything goes. But somehow my MIL and mum prefers daughter... cos can dress her up. So I think I will have to try harder the next time round. I personally would like to have a daughter... but end of the day I'm only concerned if the baby is healthy. The only thing on my mind during the scan was to hear from gynae that everything is normal. I actually forgot about checking the gender while lying there until the gynae zoomed in to show us the baby's penis. I hope your sis-in-law and her baby are doing well. It must have been a traumatising experience for your sis-in-law. But I'm puzzled why the gynae did not detect the mistake in gender even though there were so many scans done in the interim. Nyny... basically the follow-up is to check if the tissues have been completely cleaned out. If your bleeding continues... do remember to bring this up to the gynae. As for sex... I think it is better to abstain from it until your bleeding stops and your gynae clears you. This is just in case your wound may get infected if it hasn't heal completely.
Folic... have a smooth delievery and congrats in advance
Tubby... isn't it exciting to be able to feel the movement? I can feel the baby moving more for the last few days. Guess I was in the same situation as you 2 weeks ago... when I keep second-guessing myself
Thanks everyone for the well-wishes!! We will be naming our baby Matthias. Actually we have picked out the 2 names... one for girl and one for boy long time ago. In fact Matthias was chosen just one week after my miscarriage. We figured that we need to do some thinking since it took us quite a while to choose the names of our twins. As for the chinese name... that's my dad-in-law's job.
Okie turning in... nite nite.
nyny,
Here's the address of JE chinese physician:
YING CHUAN CHINESE MEDICAL HALL
Blk 202 Jurong East St 21 #01-117
S'pore 600202
Tel: 68975655
Do go as early as 6.15am. Cos queue will be very long.
Hamasaki,
Thank you....
Tubby,
Envy you leh.....
Odie,
You're so lucky to hv both ur mum & MIL thinking the same 'channel'. Thanks my SIL & her bb gal are fine. Initially was a very traumatizing experience for SIL, she cried everyday. Now she ok liao. Her gynae was unable to see clearly the gender of the bb all these while cos bb legs never open...*shy*
Here's the address of JE chinese physician:
YING CHUAN CHINESE MEDICAL HALL
Blk 202 Jurong East St 21 #01-117
S'pore 600202
Tel: 68975655
Do go as early as 6.15am. Cos queue will be very long.
Hamasaki,
Thank you....
Tubby,
Envy you leh.....
Odie,
You're so lucky to hv both ur mum & MIL thinking the same 'channel'. Thanks my SIL & her bb gal are fine. Initially was a very traumatizing experience for SIL, she cried everyday. Now she ok liao. Her gynae was unable to see clearly the gender of the bb all these while cos bb legs never open...*shy*
pregnantbride2b
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hello gals...
Anyone know is there an mrt near KKH? I am going there for an appointment this afternoon.. but I dunno how to get there from Ang Mo Kio...
Anyone know is there an mrt near KKH? I am going there for an appointment this afternoon.. but I dunno how to get there from Ang Mo Kio...
forgetmenot
Active Member
Hi gals,
Sorry to intrude like this..
Odie,
Do you think you can drop mi a email at [email protected] as I would like to ask u a few questions on the clinic that you are seeing your gynae at?Thanks.
Lyn,
u can take mrt to novena mrt station and they have free shuttle bus to bring u to KKH.You can refer to this website for the exact pick up location and the intervals,http://www.kkh.com.sg/ForPatientsnVisitors/DirectionsandParking/
Sorry to intrude like this..
Odie,
Do you think you can drop mi a email at [email protected] as I would like to ask u a few questions on the clinic that you are seeing your gynae at?Thanks.
Lyn,
u can take mrt to novena mrt station and they have free shuttle bus to bring u to KKH.You can refer to this website for the exact pick up location and the intervals,http://www.kkh.com.sg/ForPatientsnVisitors/DirectionsandParking/
pregnantbride2b
New Member
Thank you very much, forgetmenot.
pregnantbride2b
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Hi Sum,
Are you considering seeing Dr Peter Chew? I think he's very good.
I also dunno whether to TTC or not... I am also afraid of history happening again
. One side of my brain says "want". The other side says "scared". My doc told me there's no guarantee it won't happen to me again unless I take a course of injections. Even with the injections, there's no guarantee also, just reduce the chances
. I will just let nature take its course then... Gotta be happy and think positive...
Hi nyny,
I think it's better to avoid till your review on Monday to prevent infection of the womb.
Hi Odie,
Yap, will think of a happy name
... but I dunno how to change the nickname...
Are you considering seeing Dr Peter Chew? I think he's very good.
I also dunno whether to TTC or not... I am also afraid of history happening again
Hi nyny,
I think it's better to avoid till your review on Monday to prevent infection of the womb.
Hi Odie,
Yap, will think of a happy name
pregnantbride2b
New Member
Take care, nyny... hugs...
K I am going off to my appointment already... fingers-crossed... quite scared of knowing the facts really...
K I am going off to my appointment already... fingers-crossed... quite scared of knowing the facts really...
Hi there girls,
Just wanted to let you know that baby emma has arrived...on Sunday 30 Jan at 1620hrs. Will give u more details when i get some time, but really wanted to thank all of u for all your support and encouragement and being behind us throughout the nine months.
Take care u all...
Just wanted to let you know that baby emma has arrived...on Sunday 30 Jan at 1620hrs. Will give u more details when i get some time, but really wanted to thank all of u for all your support and encouragement and being behind us throughout the nine months.
Take care u all...
Tiny,
Congrats & thanks for informing us! Looking forward to hear your birth story & your gal's photos!
Lyn,
Thanks, I also heard Dr Peter Chew is good. I wonder what's his charges like? Dunno expensive or not? I still haven't decided which gynae I'll go in future. Cos now still too early leh...never even started TTC & now hunting for gynae. Think I'm too kia su!
nyny,
For 2 wks course of medicine, she charges abt $40+. Last time when I used to see her, I took 2 wks medicine. After I finished, I'll visit her again. I'm staying in the East & it's very far for me to go so early! Then when I felt that my body is 'adapting' to her medicine, I took abt 1-2 mths' supply...so I don't hv to go so regularly.
Her opening hrs (if still no change):
Mon & Tue - Closed
Wed to Sun - 6.15am to 4pm
PH - 6.15am to 12pm
(Thur afternoon only see Japanese patients).
Think now they allow pple to call & make appt. But must call as early as 6.15am. And everyday she only sees 100 patients. Once queue no. given out, they'll ask u to come tomolo.
Congrats & thanks for informing us! Looking forward to hear your birth story & your gal's photos!
Lyn,
Thanks, I also heard Dr Peter Chew is good. I wonder what's his charges like? Dunno expensive or not? I still haven't decided which gynae I'll go in future. Cos now still too early leh...never even started TTC & now hunting for gynae.
Think I'm too kia su! nyny,
For 2 wks course of medicine, she charges abt $40+. Last time when I used to see her, I took 2 wks medicine. After I finished, I'll visit her again. I'm staying in the East & it's very far for me to go so early! Then when I felt that my body is 'adapting' to her medicine, I took abt 1-2 mths' supply...so I don't hv to go so regularly.
Her opening hrs (if still no change):
Mon & Tue - Closed
Wed to Sun - 6.15am to 4pm
PH - 6.15am to 12pm
(Thur afternoon only see Japanese patients).
Think now they allow pple to call & make appt. But must call as early as 6.15am. And everyday she only sees 100 patients. Once queue no. given out, they'll ask u to come tomolo.
nyny,
Ya...she starts business very early. I can't say if she's good or not, cos I think the medicine may work or may not work for some pple. My fren tried her medicine for 6 mths, no results, then my fren stopped seeing her anymore. I was on her medication for 8 mths then conceive my 1st child. Think it all depends on individual. I think she specialises in infertility & female problems. But normal sickness can also see her. My hubby gastric pain also see her leh... But 1 thing I'm quite impressed is...I don't hv to tell her my problems...she felt my pulse & she can tell all my problems! Very impressed. But she 'likes' to recommend her patient to see a Dr from Gleneagles to go for scanning.
Ya...she starts business very early. I can't say if she's good or not, cos I think the medicine may work or may not work for some pple. My fren tried her medicine for 6 mths, no results, then my fren stopped seeing her anymore. I was on her medication for 8 mths then conceive my 1st child. Think it all depends on individual. I think she specialises in infertility & female problems. But normal sickness can also see her. My hubby gastric pain also see her leh... But 1 thing I'm quite impressed is...I don't hv to tell her my problems...she felt my pulse & she can tell all my problems! Very impressed. But she 'likes' to recommend her patient to see a Dr from Gleneagles to go for scanning.
hi sum
oh i c...
hmm... if that's the case, maybe i still stick to my sinsei at bt batok at the moment. 'cos he's quite good in 'tiao' the body, too.
last week when i went to see him with heaty body, before i told him, he told me all my problems after touched my pulse.
last time, this sinsei also cured my headache problem which used to 'stick' to me for more than 2 years.
oh i c...
hmm... if that's the case, maybe i still stick to my sinsei at bt batok at the moment. 'cos he's quite good in 'tiao' the body, too.
last week when i went to see him with heaty body, before i told him, he told me all my problems after touched my pulse.
last time, this sinsei also cured my headache problem which used to 'stick' to me for more than 2 years.
pregnantbride2b
New Member
Hi tiny,
Congratulations!!! Hope to read your birth story and your baby's photos...
Hi Sum,
Slightly on the high side, but not as high as some other popular gynae. It is never too early to find a gynae. You can also go for a checkup to make sure everything is ok for TTC. I wanted to do that but I got a surprise pregnancy and I lost it... If I had went for a checkup, I would not suffer from the loss. oops.. You have a kid.. maybe you know more than I do...
Hi hamasaki...
More facts set in... The gynae felt a lump.
I felt that lump too last week. This lump is new...
I know it's new cos I have been feeling my tummy often ever since the operation. It appeared last week. Doc sent me for a blood test for ovarian cancer. It sounds scary
. I hope the results will be negative. They will call me if there's something wrong... Pray they wun call me before I see the doc
. I will be going for an ultrasound soon after CNY. I am trying to think positive...
Congratulations!!! Hope to read your birth story and your baby's photos...
Hi Sum,
Slightly on the high side, but not as high as some other popular gynae. It is never too early to find a gynae. You can also go for a checkup to make sure everything is ok for TTC. I wanted to do that but I got a surprise pregnancy and I lost it... If I had went for a checkup, I would not suffer from the loss. oops.. You have a kid.. maybe you know more than I do...
Hi hamasaki...
More facts set in... The gynae felt a lump.
J
java
Guest
Hi Tiny,
Congrats! Hope to hear your birth story soon.
Hope everyone's well and healthy. Just an update on my side. The autopsy results of my bb is out, no abnormalities found. Now just waiting for my blood test results. I think I've gotta be prepared that if nothing can be found, then I have to plan my next step and continue to pray and discern if parenthood is for me.
I will be going to Perth in March, after that I will be starting work liao.
Hope everyone have a great Chinese New Year!
Congrats! Hope to hear your birth story soon.
Hope everyone's well and healthy. Just an update on my side. The autopsy results of my bb is out, no abnormalities found. Now just waiting for my blood test results. I think I've gotta be prepared that if nothing can be found, then I have to plan my next step and continue to pray and discern if parenthood is for me.
I will be going to Perth in March, after that I will be starting work liao.
Hope everyone have a great Chinese New Year!
pregnantbride2b
New Member
Hi java,
Perth is a relaxing place... Enjoy your holidays there...
I was just pondering of the possibility of cesarean before 35 weeks? Maybe can ask ur doctor?
Perth is a relaxing place... Enjoy your holidays there...
I was just pondering of the possibility of cesarean before 35 weeks? Maybe can ask ur doctor?
hi Java, i was thinking of U and wondering how are U and so funny, here U are with yr posting.. ..
Glad to hear that the autopsy is normal and well.. Do keep us update again on the blood test results.. I do pray hard for U that everything is normal and well and whatever dreams and wishes that U have will come true..
its good to go for an holiday.. relax well and enjoy the trip.. Take care Gal..
Glad to hear that the autopsy is normal and well.. Do keep us update again on the blood test results.. I do pray hard for U that everything is normal and well and whatever dreams and wishes that U have will come true..
its good to go for an holiday.. relax well and enjoy the trip.. Take care Gal..
nyny,
in this case u may wan2 consider to 'stick' to your this sinseh since your body can adapt to his medicine. Btw, I didn't go to JE physician to 'tiao' my body. Instead, I went to Eu Yan Sang. Cos I think JE too far for me, and after my D&C I'm too tired to travel so far.
hi lyn,
hee..hee..aiyah...we juz share share info lah...me having 1 toddler already don't mean I know a lot Btw, my gynae told me to visit her for checkup after 2 rounds of regular AF. Now my 2 rounds were over but I'm scared to see her. I'm too panaroid of the v-scan. Cos when I was hospitalised few mths ago, I did lots of v-scan till I very hyper scared now. And pls don't think too much about that lump...I'll pray for you...
Java,
Enjoy your holiday! Btw, I've the same mentality as Lyn. I was abt to tell u that maybe can ask your gynae the possibility to c-section b4 35 wks? Pls be more optimistic...never give up easily hor....but now juz relax & eat lots of nutritious food...
in this case u may wan2 consider to 'stick' to your this sinseh since your body can adapt to his medicine. Btw, I didn't go to JE physician to 'tiao' my body. Instead, I went to Eu Yan Sang. Cos I think JE too far for me, and after my D&C I'm too tired to travel so far.
hi lyn,
hee..hee..aiyah...we juz share share info lah...me having 1 toddler already don't mean I know a lot
Btw, my gynae told me to visit her for checkup after 2 rounds of regular AF. Now my 2 rounds were over but I'm scared to see her. I'm too panaroid of the v-scan. Cos when I was hospitalised few mths ago, I did lots of v-scan till I very hyper scared now. And pls don't think too much about that lump...I'll pray for you... Java,
Enjoy your holiday! Btw, I've the same mentality as Lyn. I was abt to tell u that maybe can ask your gynae the possibility to c-section b4 35 wks? Pls be more optimistic...never give up easily hor....but now juz relax & eat lots of nutritious food...
Hi gals, a new year is ushering in soon next week..
Here Hamasaki, wishing all a Prosperous and Happy New Year.. May all MTB give birth to healthy normal babies and may all TTC gals graduate to be Mummys..
Gong Xi Fa Cai and hope more good news will be pouring into this thread..
Here Hamasaki, wishing all a Prosperous and Happy New Year.. May all MTB give birth to healthy normal babies and may all TTC gals graduate to be Mummys..
Gong Xi Fa Cai and hope more good news will be pouring into this thread..
Hi all,
Just a little update on my gynae visit today. My triple blood test result is out. Everything's in the normal range.
Thru' the ab-scan, we can see little bb moving around in my tummy. My gynae tried for sometime to measure the length but bb kept moving. So cute!!
Then I ask the gynae about bb's gender.. My gynae says rather difficult because bb's position always changing.
Anyway she still gave it a try. More likely we are having a
bec gynae say cannot see little "birdie" but saw two "lips"... Ha! Ha!
Finally, I've signed my package with my gynae today.
At least I feel more at ease this moment lor... I was initially rather worried because my ms is gone and I feel very normal. 2nd trimester is really like nothing like that except for little itchy and bulgy tummy...
Enjoy the Lunar New Year everybody... Hope all TTCians will succeed this year and all MTBs to have a smooth and wonderful delivery!! GONG XI FA CAI EVERYBODY!!
Just a little update on my gynae visit today. My triple blood test result is out. Everything's in the normal range.
Thru' the ab-scan, we can see little bb moving around in my tummy. My gynae tried for sometime to measure the length but bb kept moving. So cute!!
Then I ask the gynae about bb's gender.. My gynae says rather difficult because bb's position always changing.
Finally, I've signed my package with my gynae today.
Enjoy the Lunar New Year everybody... Hope all TTCians will succeed this year and all MTBs to have a smooth and wonderful delivery!! GONG XI FA CAI EVERYBODY!!
hi miao, glad that yr check-up went well and Congrats for expecting a baby Girl.. Next time talk to baby be4 yr next check-up, ask her to stop moving for a while to allows Gynae to do check-up and measuring of her.. (hehehehhe)
All the best to U and take care..
Wishing U an Early Happy New Year..
All the best to U and take care..
Wishing U an Early Happy New Year..
Hi Java,
good to see your posting. It's good that you are taking a break. Hope it will help in your recovery process. I think both of you need the well deserved break! Take care!
Hi Miao, good to hear the good news and the very active baby
Now you can relax and enjoy CNY!
I will most likely be delivering in about 28 days times, since my gynae would like to induce me at 38 weeks. That means I have only about 12 working days, after taking into consideration all the leave that I have taken during Feb
Hope everyone have prosperous and happy Rooster Year and may all your wishes come true!
folic
good to see your posting. It's good that you are taking a break. Hope it will help in your recovery process. I think both of you need the well deserved break! Take care!
Hi Miao, good to hear the good news and the very active baby
I will most likely be delivering in about 28 days times, since my gynae would like to induce me at 38 weeks. That means I have only about 12 working days, after taking into consideration all the leave that I have taken during Feb
folic
Dear all,
My sis-in-law's bb gal not well...last Fri bb gal went for checkup. The doc sent her for x-ray & to what he has expected, the bb's heart got a hole. My SIL cried again...sigh.... Now doc advised to monitor for 1 mth...if the hole still there & maybe hv to take medicine for long term.
My sis-in-law's bb gal not well...last Fri bb gal went for checkup. The doc sent her for x-ray & to what he has expected, the bb's heart got a hole. My SIL cried again...sigh.... Now doc advised to monitor for 1 mth...if the hole still there & maybe hv to take medicine for long term.
Morning gals!
Hamasaki, I am delivering at Raffles Hospital. It should be normal delivery, unless the induction doesnt work, then I will kenna c-section.
Sum, Hope the hole will close up. I have that it is quite common and treatable condition. If you want more info, you might want to start a thread to ask about it. I recalled someone had a baby with this condition but I can't remember where it is liao.
folic
Hamasaki, I am delivering at Raffles Hospital. It should be normal delivery, unless the induction doesnt work, then I will kenna c-section.
Sum, Hope the hole will close up. I have that it is quite common and treatable condition. If you want more info, you might want to start a thread to ask about it. I recalled someone had a baby with this condition but I can't remember where it is liao.
folic
Hello gals!
Haven't been visisting this thread as I just came back from a holiday to Cambodia. It is a beautiful place - though awfully dusty and sandy -and Angkor Wat is awesome!
Java, my heart dropped when I read what you went through. I am sure you will be a parent one day; it will happen in His time. Have a good trip to Perth and do take care of yourself and hubby!
Tiny, congrats! and welcome, baby Emma!
Tubby, you're feeling movement already! Wow!
Sum, I've heard of cases where the hole closes. One of my friends was also diagnosed with that when he was a baby, and he went though life being very careful. After 20-over years, they found out that he was fine, no hole, nothing!
Folic, may you have a good birth!
Have a fruitful Rooster year, everyone!
Haven't been visisting this thread as I just came back from a holiday to Cambodia. It is a beautiful place - though awfully dusty and sandy -and Angkor Wat is awesome!
Java, my heart dropped when I read what you went through. I am sure you will be a parent one day; it will happen in His time. Have a good trip to Perth and do take care of yourself and hubby!
Tiny, congrats! and welcome, baby Emma!
Tubby, you're feeling movement already! Wow!
Sum, I've heard of cases where the hole closes. One of my friends was also diagnosed with that when he was a baby, and he went though life being very careful. After 20-over years, they found out that he was fine, no hole, nothing!
Folic, may you have a good birth!
Have a fruitful Rooster year, everyone!
pregnantbride2b
New Member
HEllo Gals...
Wish you all a Prosperous and Happy Lunar Year!!!
Wish you all a Prosperous and Happy Lunar Year!!!
positiveme
New Member
Hi gals
wishing all the mtbs here have a smooth & safe delivery!!!
wishing all the ttc gals a fruitful & smooth sailing year ahead & may more newborns to be announced over here!
wishing all the mtbs here have a smooth & safe delivery!!!
wishing all the ttc gals a fruitful & smooth sailing year ahead & may more newborns to be announced over here!