Hi BS_S,
hmm...so yr hubby and U are fine with m'sia gain iq. how come u discontinue him fr nan 3??
dunno leh,lymph nodes, she has it few mth bck.
hai...I'm so 'half -dead". these 2 weeks from 14/3 (took tx to mmr jab) to now, I have been travelling to bb polyclinic once-thrice per week till the pharmacy cashier (cos buying the gain iq and pet pet mah), the registeration counter and maybe the security guard knew me liao. this week is more siong, go polyclinic thrice. on mon, I myself went polyclinic and then got a call fr my brother sad tx was having runny nose. ok, rush to my mum 's hse after see the doc in the morning and took her to bb polyclinic. then on thur, I went to bb polyclinic to see the doc myself for fever, cough, runny nose, throat infection and prolong menses. then make 'a fuss' at the doc and finally get myself a direct access to NUH. so I went to NUH clinic G to see gyn and do pap smear and blood test. think the tiredness, pissing off etc making me loss all the senses. nurse poke needle to test to draw out blood a few times but unsuccessfully. so I did not feel any pain at all (maybe compare to labour pain, what a 'big deal', right). the nurse was so terrible pitiful sorrie for me...haa..but I just smile and said ok it 's not the first time. ok, next, day, tot I can rest (given 2 day mcs). but got a call fr my mum early in the morning that tx vomitted out milk last night, having fever at 3am and having Diarrhoea too. but dunno why men is like that I'm already very sick liao after consuming so much drownisess medicine still ask me want to take tx to see doc or not, dun they volunterr themself. I told him he go ahead first and then I joined them later. he told me ok, and then he said he needed to go bck to office first and then later head to my mum'plc to take tx to bb polyclinic ard 8am++ (since all her record from birth till now is over there). anyway, I forced myself to get up regardless how drowny I was and was at the polyclinc at 8am. I went to get the queue no first. anyway, tx was given a lot of medicine to consume that day.
ok, then tx was bck to my hse but I could not carry her bec I dun wan to pass to her. so luckily, my mum stayed over and helped out. this man huh still told me it 's too late liao, will not go bck to office liao. faintz....speechless...dunno what shd I say??ok, never mind, I also sick(but at least my fever disappear liao) but still need to ask him to do this and that, no autto-one.....hai....my motion need to be slow or else will felt heavy head due to low BP. instead of pity me, still want me to collect the hanging clothes. hai... also I was already very sad that i could not attend to tx and try to keep a distance fr her.
ok, in summary, a lot of pissed off incident by hubby and mum lah. what mum's word really hurts me man, u yrself better recover first, dun need to care tx and I will treat tx like my child. even at polyclinic, she talked so loud to me that better not to have no 2 till tx is 4 yr old, I 'tong long to long u (pray hard u). that I think others heard it. at that time, I had no energy loh, too restless to move so did not utter any words. hai..... ok, back to doc seeing, tx even vomitted in front of this lady doc (she is the only bb baby /woman doc which is friendly and know how to 'hong' children). luckily, I was fast enu to hold her vomit with plastic bag. but still got some droplets spill out. see the diguested look of the cleaner and the dunno what to do trained doc (there's another trainer doc in this lady doc rm). my mum only shouted 'tissue tissue'. then the trainee doc then moved to get the tissue only....shake head. anyway, i like this Dr Jane Matiah. I think she is the most friendly children and woman doc in bb polyclinic. unlike, last doc, when tx cried a bit, he scared to touch her liao. this lady doc just knew how to 'hong' children but for this case, 'lose battle' with tx, cos tx screamed very loud. so she told us lymph nodes dun need to care first anyway, it is inaccurate now once there is a fever, runny nose loh.
anyway, tot, sat can rest too. after battling with the fever and vomitting for 3 days, it was gone. of cos, that's gd news cos doc said most impt is the fever. but she still lao sai but not so much only 4 times. at 830pm ++, my mum told us to take tx to kkh for check up cos, she just refuse to slp and also eat (last feed on plain porriage at 4pm++). so unwilling, we all took a cab to KKH. I tot I can slp that day cos I consume the flue tablet and the cough syrup. then 1 hr later, my head spin mah and I almost vomitted in the taxi but luckily, it reached KKH A&E in time so i did not vomit, only break into cold sweat. we waited for 1hr time before it was tx's turn to go and see the doc.
the doc looked experience (can't tell cos he is masked) fr the way his speak but sometimes quite 'ya ya' cos he said tx 's case small case, dun need to come also can cos no fever and no vomit mah....I told him to explain in mandarian to my mum since she was the one who insisted to come here. tx of cos screamed when doc tried to touch her. in summary,acc to doc, tx has only throat infection that why losing her appetite is normal, can't slp and everything looked ok. I 'shu bian' asked the doc abt her lymah node. guess what he told us. shd I feel relieve or ??? he said ai-yo lymph node if dun have die loh...(really this was what he said). anyway, he did mention that tx' node only 1cm but NOT so big lah. if 2cm and above will be worried only. but I told him polyclinic doc said that tx node is 1.5cm leh.. then A&E doc said dun worry the node will be growing smaller when the infection go off and only return if sick. so the whole issue shd made my mum relieve.
ok, back to me, I went NUH A&E this noon sun. my mum nagged and insisted me to go for my prolong menses (for 3 wks). i told her go that the doc will tell u need to wait for report (taken last thur). anyway, I 'cut queue' since they saw that I was a 'urgent' case. the gyne was sent and asked me why I needed to come down, shd I wait for the report etc...ai-yo, i told him that these 2 days, I suddenly had a scary bloody blood cot type of flush out. so scary. then he examined me and told me my cervix ok and said need to wait for report. he gave me a hormone jab (now my buttok very pain, I was wondering, when doc give jab to our bb, will they feel pain after the jab) to stop the bleeding and some hormone pill. of cos, I did ask him a lot of qns (dun waste the $80).
anyway, hope tx 's lao sai stopped and she get well soon. cos she totally lost her appetite, only drank 2-4 oz of isomil per day. she also ate bread and plain watery porriage too. she is still restless and can see all her baby fats and chubby part are all flatten.
also I managed to clear my name man...as my mum kept insisting and blame that i'm the one who pass it to her tough I told her it might be my sis. it is not me who pass the bug to tx, it was my sis who return fr batam resort and then kana food posioning then vomit the whole night. so tx is down with
Gastroenteritis flu by doc.
