<font color="0000ff">chantelle</font>, on the top left hand corner of this page, login ur username and password...
then at the same corner, there will be Edit Profile...
system will prompt you to enter password again for security...
under Preferences
uncheck the 3rd last option: Do not send me "Private Message" e-mails from other board users
<font color="0000ff">cloud9mummy</font>, if u got my HP number, pls sms me ur number... thanx... cos my mail has been down for 2 days...