CSI: i juz posted over at the other thread...
tat time i posted b4 i delivered. i think u missed it.. hehe.. nvm. u coming hor?
u all can either pm me or sms me for those who have my hp or Sandra also can. cause i maybe too busy wif cranky Ryan, i may miss out ur post.
CSI: i haven't intro bottle. cause he already rejected long ago. n i lazy to pump liao. hehe.. so i leave it. when he hungry then i latch.
yesterday was alittle better. he's back on our bed btw... sigh.. i think it's the mattress in the cot.
after confinement, we need to source for a good firm mattress liao. otherwise i will nv have alone time wif hb.
i dun let MIL carry him cause she smells. come back frm market nv change out of her clothes. i dun wan contaminate ryan.. today i broke the ice by letting her carry him. after she carried him for abt almost 1hr, i bathed Ryan. so i think i'll prob do it this way. Bath immed after carrying.
He kept crying in her arms. cannot calm him down. so she auto pass back to me. so not i dun wan let her carry, it's she cannot handle him.
hehe, my boy also smart la. he noes his mummy dun like..
i stopped swaddling him long ago cause he dun like. but i realised tat swaddling him keeps him aslp a longer period of time. due to shock during sleeping if not swaddled?
i tried the method also. PUPD? cannot... carry, sayang abit then stop then put down. he'll start again. so in order to let my hb slp peacefully as he gotta work, i can't take the risk of him crying whole nite.
Ryan still hates bathing. dunno if the water is too warm or wat. i dun give hot water. only warm water. n in aircon room i bath him. but he seems to like cool water instead? not good rite?
I sometimes let Ryan cry if he's fussing only. but hb n mil scared he cry too much will have wind in tummy. so they tend to carry immed if Ryan cries. which i dun like. Sometimes i press his tummy n hold his hands while he's slping it also calms him down.
so i really dunno when he's fussing, when he's uncomfy. except tat if uncomfy, his cries r sharp n loud, fussing - he'll cry n stop n cry.
only time he cries until he turns lobster n no sound comes out is during bath time. tats y i dread bath time. i really dunno wat i m doing wrong... haiz...