Hi Mngo,
my experience is that if there is any wood stuff that u want to ship, clearly label on the box and try putting all the wooden stuff together in the box, huge items like bedframes cannot help it but they can clearly see it fr outside. So wht happened to my shipment was that they randomly open some of the boxes, including the ones that we labelled wooden stuff. I think they spray some chemical in the boxes containing the wooden stuff cos we found a cover (something like for insecticide). But as for the bedframe (baby cot), they didn't open to do anything cos we wrapped it w transparent plastic wrapper. I was told that they spent abt 45mins to an hr to check, so it was quite fast.
Abt racism in Mel and Syn, i guess it is v subjective. I jus heard stories abt them, but like those mummies already here, i do agree w them tat so far my experience here is positive.
It wld be good if ur hubby secure a job 1st b4 the whole family moved over.