Dear HOPE,
Definitely it is not because Dr loh dislikes you that's why he doesn't give you additional supports, like what he said and you saw for your tests yourself that you have sufficient support. Anything over is never good. Despite my bad history and bad state of womb and him thinking me getting preggie is a miracle, I only had duphaston and folic acid, no inserts, no jabs etc. I don't think your pains are caused by lack of support, in fact, it might be too many supports, thus it makes sense to me that he doesn't give you more. Hope this makes some sense to you too? Hehe...
Like I mentioned previously, I had such bad backaches and also breathlessness that I called the clinic to seek advice and emailed him an ultra long email about me (scared he has forgotten my case) and my unusual pains. His reply was "can take panadol". 3 words. At first I was also like %$^#$%%^$&, but later then I realised he was right, i can simply take panadol to ease the pain and do not need to do anything else. I wanted to go A&E even. End up i didn't and i just tahan and the pain went away after a few days.
He is simply straightforward about things, which is what I like about him. And he is also very experienced and has seen almost all types of cases before so I can trust him when he tells me something, and I also don't over worry when he doesn't tell me any bad news. Cos if there's bad news, he'd surely tell and not hide.
Sorry I went on and on, just wanna share my experience and thoughts about having him as my gynae
Dear Mamaleen,
Pls rest well and not exert yourself!!! I had low HCG when i was first pregnant. I compared my reading with all our sisters and info I read on the net and saw that mine was on the lower end. It was 167.5 at 17 days past transfer for a 2 day old embbie. I was happy and yet so sad, thinking baby won't make it. But luckily enough, baby made it at 411.4 2 days later. You are even earlier than me so it is likely that yours is a feasible pregnancy. At first I thought baby is gonna have a problem growing since HCG started so little and so late. End up now my baby's legs are longer than average and tummy & head circumference are bigger than average too! lol.
Don't slacken or lose hopes ya? Stay positive! Jiayou!!!!!
