hi Ping,
well glad that u r feeling beter..ur kids need u alrite..hope to see a cheerfull mum if we can meet up..hee..well as for ***..i think once a while u should give ur hubby..cz i think guys they have their needs too..i noe how it feels like wen u have no mood then u have to do it..but just have it for the sake of having is not gd too..try to find the mood back..i m trying too..u noe..lol..that will helps alot in the r/s if u can have it back..u noe..aft *** u guys can give eachother a shower then go back to the olden days that u dont have kids..*make sure kids r sleeping*..then wen u talk he will comfirm listen..hee..win-win solution rite??hee..jia you hor..relax dont tink abt him beening bad to u..just treat him nicer..n see how it goes ya..
hey isabellali..
wow..u veri fierce le..haa..i sometime will like that too..wen i was preggi my hubby keep plaing game with his bro..then i want him talk to me he say"wait i come back in 5 mins" omg..u mean gameing is more impt??so i throw my alarm clock at the door then BOTH of them come in n pei me talk..whahaha..well i should say that every house have their own prob..like me too..my MIL n me r okok wan at 1st..we can talk n share clothes*i preggi so cant wear then i give her wear lo*..etc..but wen bb come out i just cant stand her liao..i dono y..everytime she wanna carry bb n touch him i like kana slap like that..i feel veri angry,sad,jelouse..etc..then i will complain to my hubby say can dont carry..etc..then we all had a huge fight..then i also hate the BIL to touch or carry my bb..u noe..i veri protective over my bb de..abit abit cannot..then mk till my hubby n my r/s veri veri veri siean..i reali dono y i feel like that..even like today, i was sleeping..then my MIL come into my room n take the bb to her room to play..i also not happy..then i ask hubby tk back that my MIL ask him get lost n scold him..but i think he is used to it..cz he every time kana scold by his mother over the bb which i think it's veri siean..i alr talk abt it..fight over it lots n lots of time n got one time i wanna tk my bb out of the house my hubby pass bb to his parents n then pin me down..then i like one mad women on the floor kana scold a cray women by the mum n then i try to break free as my bb crying n then they call the ambulance n ammited me to hospital saying that i m crazy..i reali cant tk the marriage animore cz i feel like i have no *family life*..u noe..everytime the MIL n Bil wanna come into the pic wen i wanna have a bonding time with my bb..yea i m a SHM..i have lots of time n they dont have n all i eat,wear,sleep,medical bills..etc all pay by my MIL..i like her for who she is but just can tk the way she treat my bb..lol..crazy me..
aii..so much of my stupit story..
i just find that u mummies out there are like more stronger then me..emotionaly,mentaly n FINACIALY..that's y i say bb r the onli source of light for us..no matter how dark our life mayb..how bad our hubby can b..just tk a look at our kids..we laugh wen they laugh..we cry wen they cry..we be panic wen they r sick..we grow with them..dont we??what we can do is help to mk things works..if it cant work..look at our kids n tell ourself..it for their future that we r enduring this SHIT!!everytink we do now is for them to grow up in a "happY" family..m i rite?
cheers!!
well glad that u r feeling beter..ur kids need u alrite..hope to see a cheerfull mum if we can meet up..hee..well as for ***..i think once a while u should give ur hubby..cz i think guys they have their needs too..i noe how it feels like wen u have no mood then u have to do it..but just have it for the sake of having is not gd too..try to find the mood back..i m trying too..u noe..lol..that will helps alot in the r/s if u can have it back..u noe..aft *** u guys can give eachother a shower then go back to the olden days that u dont have kids..*make sure kids r sleeping*..then wen u talk he will comfirm listen..hee..win-win solution rite??hee..jia you hor..relax dont tink abt him beening bad to u..just treat him nicer..n see how it goes ya..
hey isabellali..
wow..u veri fierce le..haa..i sometime will like that too..wen i was preggi my hubby keep plaing game with his bro..then i want him talk to me he say"wait i come back in 5 mins" omg..u mean gameing is more impt??so i throw my alarm clock at the door then BOTH of them come in n pei me talk..whahaha..well i should say that every house have their own prob..like me too..my MIL n me r okok wan at 1st..we can talk n share clothes*i preggi so cant wear then i give her wear lo*..etc..but wen bb come out i just cant stand her liao..i dono y..everytime she wanna carry bb n touch him i like kana slap like that..i feel veri angry,sad,jelouse..etc..then i will complain to my hubby say can dont carry..etc..then we all had a huge fight..then i also hate the BIL to touch or carry my bb..u noe..i veri protective over my bb de..abit abit cannot..then mk till my hubby n my r/s veri veri veri siean..i reali dono y i feel like that..even like today, i was sleeping..then my MIL come into my room n take the bb to her room to play..i also not happy..then i ask hubby tk back that my MIL ask him get lost n scold him..but i think he is used to it..cz he every time kana scold by his mother over the bb which i think it's veri siean..i alr talk abt it..fight over it lots n lots of time n got one time i wanna tk my bb out of the house my hubby pass bb to his parents n then pin me down..then i like one mad women on the floor kana scold a cray women by the mum n then i try to break free as my bb crying n then they call the ambulance n ammited me to hospital saying that i m crazy..i reali cant tk the marriage animore cz i feel like i have no *family life*..u noe..everytime the MIL n Bil wanna come into the pic wen i wanna have a bonding time with my bb..yea i m a SHM..i have lots of time n they dont have n all i eat,wear,sleep,medical bills..etc all pay by my MIL..i like her for who she is but just can tk the way she treat my bb..lol..crazy me..
aii..so much of my stupit story..
i just find that u mummies out there are like more stronger then me..emotionaly,mentaly n FINACIALY..that's y i say bb r the onli source of light for us..no matter how dark our life mayb..how bad our hubby can b..just tk a look at our kids..we laugh wen they laugh..we cry wen they cry..we be panic wen they r sick..we grow with them..dont we??what we can do is help to mk things works..if it cant work..look at our kids n tell ourself..it for their future that we r enduring this SHIT!!everytink we do now is for them to grow up in a "happY" family..m i rite?
cheers!!