hope_4_bb
I know there will be a scan (not vaginal) the day before the IUI date is fixed for sure. Can't remember whether there is another scan the day itself. Not vaginal scan anyway, the normal 'stomach' scan. Dont think that you can 'see' follicle from a vaginal scan in any case.
Yup, if at paragon, the lab is just a mins away. Can fix appt first thing in the morning at the lab for your hubby, then you guys go have a nice long breakfast and maybe do some shopping, then it will soon be time to pick up the specimen already. V fast la when you are finally doing it. When you're reading about it.. a 2 or 3 hour wait seems very long but it isn't really.
I think the clinic is partly yr choice and partly determined by where Dr Fong will be on the day your IUI needs to be done. e.g. if your eggs are 'ready' on Saturday, then it will have to be done at Paragon cos you prob cant wait unti monday. But if you're 'ready' or near ready say on Wednesday or something, then have to see in each case at what stage you are at and whether can wait for his next clinic day at the clinic you want or not. He'll advise you accordingly.
If you haven't already done so, you should be speaking to your boss to explain why you may need to take unexpected/urgent leave for this period. It's better to prepare the boss early when he is in a mood to listen than to come back later and explain to an angry person.