Hi,
I am new to this forum. I am also in a dilemma as I caught hubby having affair with the maid. I have talked to him but instead of asking for my forgiveness, he told me to accept the maid as 2nd one. Is there any wife out there who will accept this?
I have sent the maid back without telling him. Now he's unhappy and sad that the maid is gone....he treat me like a stranger...we are not talking anymore....he comes home late everyday and does not bother with the kids (2 boys). He just treat the house as a hotel where he comes home bathe and sleep, then go work early in the morning. He even put his handphone in his pocket all the time now fearing I would secretly check his handphone. Even though the maid has gone, I believe they still contact each other as I can still see her online status in her Watsapp while hubby Watsapp status also online. I am pretty sure she will come back to Singapore to work as a FDW again so that she can meet him outside because she actually asked for transfer but I sent her back instead without giving her notice.
For the kids, I am hoping to salvage the marriage and even forgave him for doing this to me. But now it seems impossible to carry on anymore. What should I do?
I am new to this forum. I am also in a dilemma as I caught hubby having affair with the maid. I have talked to him but instead of asking for my forgiveness, he told me to accept the maid as 2nd one. Is there any wife out there who will accept this?
I have sent the maid back without telling him. Now he's unhappy and sad that the maid is gone....he treat me like a stranger...we are not talking anymore....he comes home late everyday and does not bother with the kids (2 boys). He just treat the house as a hotel where he comes home bathe and sleep, then go work early in the morning. He even put his handphone in his pocket all the time now fearing I would secretly check his handphone. Even though the maid has gone, I believe they still contact each other as I can still see her online status in her Watsapp while hubby Watsapp status also online. I am pretty sure she will come back to Singapore to work as a FDW again so that she can meet him outside because she actually asked for transfer but I sent her back instead without giving her notice.
For the kids, I am hoping to salvage the marriage and even forgave him for doing this to me. But now it seems impossible to carry on anymore. What should I do?