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Divorced woman must contribute to children's education: Appeals court

Source: Straits Times
Date Published: 25 Oct 2018
Author: Selina Lum

Even if their relationship is strained, it is her responsibility as a parent to facilitate the completion of the last leg of their education.

The Court of Appeal has ruled that a divorced woman has to contribute to the education expenses of her two adult sons, from whom she has been estranged since she left home when they were in their teens.

But her responsibility as a parent should not extend to an overseas university education, said the court.

The ruling on Monday was made in a long-drawn divorce case involving matrimonial assets of about $5.8 million. It reversed a decision by the High Court that the woman, 62, did not have to contribute to the maintenance of her sons, aged 27 and 24, who are studying in a university in the United States. They are studying for their first degree after completing their polytechnic education.

Last year, the High Court dismissed an application by the sons for maintenance from their mother. It cited two reasons: Their father, now 55, who owns an electronics component company, had previously agreed to pay for their university studies and he was in a financially stronger position.

However, a three-judge apex court disagreed and allowed the sons' appeal for maintenance.

On Monday, the Court of Appeal said: "In our judgment, these two reasons cannot excuse the wife's responsibility for the maintenance of her children. Even if their relationship is strained, it is her responsibility as a parent to facilitate the completion of the last leg of their education."

It said that under the law, parents have a duty to maintain their children, including those above the age of 21 who are receiving an education. It added that the woman, who worked as a school teacher for many years and had largely relied on the husband to provide for the family during the marriage, was likely to be financially capable of contributing to her children's studies.

However, her responsibility should not extend to an overseas university education, said the court, which comprised Judge of Appeal Steven Chong and Justices Belinda Ang and Quentin Loh.

The court noted that her sons did not inform or consult her on their decision to study in the US, and it was only during divorce proceedings that she found out about their further studies.

Hence, the court assessed her contribution to be $64,248, based on the cost of a local university education for a foreign student.

As for the ex-husband's appeal for a larger share of the matrimonial assets, it was dismissed by the court, which upheld the High Court's decision that the assets valued at $5.8 million, including a $3.8 million house , should be equally divided between them.

The couple married in 1990 when the man, then 27, was a postgraduate student in the US and the woman, then 34, was a teacher in Singapore.

In June 2009, the woman left the family home, when the sons were 18 and 15 years old. Two months later, the man filed for divorce on the basis of her unreasonable behaviour, citing "improper association" with another party. She counterclaimed, alleging unreasonable behaviour on his part, citing several acts of family violence. Their 21-year marriage ended in November 2011.

Ancillary proceedings to deal with the division of assets were prolonged when the woman sought to introduce evidence to counter the man's claim that she had misappropriated money from their bank accounts
 


Pain' damages should not be among marital assets: Judge

Source: Straits Times
Date Published: 30 Oct 2018
Author: Selina Lum

The proportion of the compensation corresponding to special damages and past loss of earnings should be included in the pool.

Compensation awarded for pain and suffering to a man who was injured in an accident should not be included in the pool of assets to be divided between him and his wife during their divorce, the High Court has ruled.

In a decision last week, Justice Debbie Ong said some components of compensation - such as lost earnings prior to the divorce - may be considered matrimonial assets, but not compensation for pain and suffering as this is not acquired by a spouse's efforts during marriage.

Justice Ong overturned an earlier decision by a district judge to include the pain and suffering component of a compensation sum in the pool of assets of a couple who were divorcing after 22 years of marriage.

Their fight over the division of assets included $520,000 awarded in a court judgment to the husband for his injuries in a 2012 traffic accident. The husband, 52, a technician, said this money is not a matrimonial asset to be split, but the wife, 43, now a part-time cleaner, disagreed. She was a quality control inspector before she stopped work in 2003 to look after their three children.

Last year, a district judge ruled that the compensation award is a matrimonial asset but included only about $149,000 in the pool of assets. The sum included money received for special damages, which included medical and transport expenses, and also for damages for the husband's pain and suffering, noting that the wife had taken care of him after the accident.

Sums awarded for future medical expenses and for future loss of earnings were not included.

Both husband and wife appealed. She argued that the entire compensation sum, except for future medical expenses, should be included, while he argued that the entire sum should be excluded from the pool.

Justice Ong agreed with the husband that damages for pain and suffering were personal to him. She said the wife's contributions in taking care of him should be taken into account in determining the proportion of assets to be divided. She ruled that only the proportion of the compensation corresponding to special damages and past loss of earnings should be included in the pool. She arrived at the sum of $74,975.

Despite the compensation sum being halved, the wife is set to get a larger share of the matrimonial assets of about $1 million. Justice Ong raised her share from 40 per cent to 50 per cent, noting that this was a long single-income marriage where the woman cared for the children, as well as for her husband after the accident.
 
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There is this thing call indirect contribution. Thus, under normal circumstance, YES, the court will auto give you at least 50% share of your matrimonial house. From there it depends if hubby wants to challenge. Remember that Woman Chapter is always in favour of woman.
 
There is this thing call indirect contribution. Thus, under normal circumstance, YES, the court will auto give you at least 50% share of your matrimonial house. From there it depends if hubby wants to challenge. Remember that Woman Chapter is always in favour of woman.

Untrue. The women charter is not always in favor of woman, and the court will not auto give you the 50% matrimonial house. It’s the whole matrimonial assets that the court considers if you really go to court. A lot of factors affect the division of assets.
 
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