Hi mummies,
very depressed lately.
just read jk's post that giving pacifier too early will coz bf to terminate earlier. wonder this is happening to my bb.
also, i have cracked nipple for the first few weeks. did not latch bb for 1 week. i just pumped as not so painful if i pump. there was a layer of skin peeling off, so i waited till the skin is almost off before latching bb again. thereafter, i did not latch bb often as well, as bb seems to be feeding on breast every hour and CL was not supportive of bf, keep wanting to bottle feed her. but i was able to latch bb still and thot it was ok not to latch every time.
from 2nd month onwards, i would latch at night and bottle feed during the day as early preperation for going back to work. she is 3.5 months now, one night just suddenly reject direct feed. whenever she sees my nipple she will cry and turn away. i used to be able to latch her on lying position. now even holding her in my arms won't work.
the 1st and 2nd night when she rejected latching, i thot she wasn't hungry. so i gave pacifier. the 3rd night, again rejected, but it was obvious she was hungry as she couldn't sleep well even with pacifier. even so, she refused to latch on. so, i tried bottle feed and she took 150ml of milk (used to take 100-120ml only).
it was about 10 days ago since she rejected latching. i tried to latch her on every night since to no avail. just 2 hours ago, i almost gone crazy. i was forcing her to take my breast till she cried like got frightened. i surrendered and gave her the bottle and pacifier again. but spanked her on her thigh a few times after that. pretty hard. she knew and cried even with her favourite pacifier in her mouth. and worse, i refused to carry her when she was crying.
i know doing this to her is really bad. gave her "jin feng san" after she stopped crying. hope she doesn't have nightmare after that.
i didn't bf successfully to my elder girl. really hope to bf the younger one. on top of latching problem, she has feeding problem as well. taking less than 500ml a day. it's very obvious she is skinnier than before. read from somewhere that dun feed bb too much at night so that bb will drink more during the day. but i tried and my girl went for 13 hours milk strike that day.
mummies, any suggestion to get my girl to latch on again? does lactation consultant handle 3.5 months old bb latching problem? my supply has also dropped due to fever 3 weeks ago. been trying to get ss back. has improved but still ss not sufficient to meet demand.