yah sandy, will do step 1 once af clears: visit gynae and schedule HSG. I dun think gynae will object lah, otherwise i change gynae lor! haha, just kidding, of cos i will listen to pro advice first...
Are u feeling i'm rushing into things? i've been thinking abt this for a long time liao, hubby so laid back abt this, (i think inwardly he is also afraid to know if we might have a problem, so no wish to take further action) if i follow him same pattern, we wait until i menopause also no kid, hahaha! And i sure dun want to wait that long!
U know wat he say when i mentioned abt seeing an infertility expert for IUI? "Why do u think u are infertile?" I mean, must i wait til 10 yrs later before he wants to consider we might have a problem?! By then will be really chopped, signed and confirmed liao... So might as well do something abt it NOW... while we are still relatively young! I did a calculation, if i conceive now, our kid will only be 18 when daddy retires at 55... i dunno if we'll be comfortable enuf financially for me to stop work too (tat's my thinking lah, retire together with him and go see as much of the world as we can before we die!
) But if kiddo is still young, then can we afford to retire so early? Can we even live to see kiddo get married or have grandchildren?!
Sorry ah, dunno why i'm so lor soh, did i bore anyone with my ramblings?