ladies,
thought of sharing some advice on ttc. its not an easy thing but with patience and belief im sure u gals will succeed just like me.
1) buy and read alot of books on fertility. i bought 3 great books when i trying to conceive to understand about ovulation and my body. alot of pple misunderstood that the cycle is always 28 days and we always ovulate on day 14. this is actually a myth! the books taught us how to idenfity our body cycle and the changes.
the titles of 3 books are: "how to get pregnant", "understanding infertility and treatment" and "how to get pregnant naturally"
( i be selling my 3 books on fertility and conception at $20 each. 3 books total for $50.
2) once u know your cycle and and the changes. try using ovulation kit to detect your perk day. althugh basal charting, mucus sign can be done but that not 100% accurate too and u may jst miss the day. using ovulation kit allow u take control and let u know 100% sure your perk day.
i very kaisu i always use ovul kit to time my intercourse and it really work for me eventually
i still left 3 boxs unused. interested pls email me.
3) try preseed if u do not have enuf cervical mucus as lubricant. books have show that we need sufficient cervial mucus to transport the sperm into our cervix entrance. some ladies during sexual intercourse feel bad or not wet enuf. and dont ever use lubircatn such as KY jell or others cos they kill sperm.
i usually cant produce enuf mucus so i use preseed lubricant which is spermcide free. i try it for 2 mths.
4) if using ovul kit and preseed, u still cant conceive, then maybe u shld go to doc there to ask for 3 cycles of clomid. clomid will ensure that u definitely produce a good and big size egg for that month so that u got a good chance of fertilising. if u do not have a good and big size egg, then also wont able to concieve. this is optional choice. i contemplated for about 9mths without success before i decide to try on clomid
i try 2 cycles and finally succeed
i hope above methods help. it work for me finally.