Gilera
No the baby won't think that the maid is her mother, anyway vision is very limited in the first month, can only see near objects. Don't worry, as long as you spend quality time with your baby, she won't be confused about who mama is.
My cot is going to be in the spare room with CL. After CL leaves, will dismantle the cot and move to my room. Yup when baby pees and poops, we will moisten the area with water and dry with tissue, air dry, followed by diaper cream.
Will bathe baby everyday from day 1. Night time, just wipe with cotton balls and cloth. I put my baby tub on top of my toilet bowl with the lid closed. Will push a chair into the toilet so I can sit to wash baby. Best to give baby a proper bath, their skin is very sensitive, if you do not clean well baby will end up with a rash.
That's what I'll be doing! Hope that helps.