Hi Jan-ice, Audrey & USagibb
It's my first pregnancy and I waited 10 years for this to happen. I've heard many labor stories from friends, aunties and sister. But I never bother to find out more, but I know it's painful.
I also aware that different people have different pain threshold. I dun know mine, but I have to have faith to have this baby my way. Hehehe!!!
I have and aunt who just delivered her 2nd and basically she's been giving me some advices and tips. She had epidural for the 1st child and that caused her a long labour which she hated and after reading alot about it, she decided to have hew own way for her 2nd.
She went to Dr AZIZ at Kembangan Plaza, who was supportive of her decision not to induce when she passed her 39 weeks!
She crossed over her 40th and had contractions by then but she kept note of the pain and the frequency before decided that it's time to go Raffles!
She admitted at 4am, refused drip for assisted opening of cervic and refused to be strapped for hours on the bed. She had her baby monitored every 20mins and while waiting she did the exercises which she learnt online. hehehe..very funny right??
She walked, so that the pain was bearable. I think she dilated quite fast naturally, so at 8am, Dr Aziz came, pricked her waterbag and she popped at 10am!
It was a fast one! And she was glad she did it. She told me I can too..but she cannot avoid epiosotomy tho (cutting of vagina).
I'm not confident, but I believe if we remain calm, do the breathing exercise and focus, I'm sure we too can have a less stressful labour and dilation will be faster.
One tip worth following would be; whenever there is a huge contraction, tell ourselves we are one contraction away from meeting our junior.
But of course, if C-sect is necessary, we shd never avoid it for both safety.
Also I think support from hubby is important too. I warned my hubby not to be impatient with me and forced me to take epidural bcos altho it is painless, but seriously, you wont really get the actual feel of birthing.
I wont be sure if I'll have a second chance to have a kid, so, hopefully lah...hpefully it'll be all naturale for me.
From stories which I heard, induce would only prolong your labour. Preferaly try to avoid induce unless you wish the baby to see the world at a certain day eg on Hubby annual leave etc.