Hi mega suliba,
I'm not sure you're in the right forum group, but anyway i thought i could share my experience with you..
i've been married eight years (got married quite early so now i'm 33), and also no children yet. Had a m/s five years back when i was 28, but been ttc ever since. about two years ago through some friend's recommendation, my husband and i went to see dr christopher chen - centre for fertility.
dr chen is obviously very reputed, there's always a long long queue, his clinic is v crowded and you can see pple still waiting to see him at 9pm plus.. The wait is like 2 hrs long each time.
of course, the charges aren't low as well.. When my husband n i first went, cos of my phobia of doing vaginal scan, the doc said, "ok, we'll check your hubby first", and so they did tests on him, found out he had low percentage of gd viable sperms.. and was recommended a laparoscopy surgery. it was a one day outpatient surgery, but still, a surgery, and it was a few thousand dollars.
anyway, after the surgery, the doc did a review, but claimed that the quality of the sperm didn't really seem to improve extremely significantly..
so anyway we were kind of not knowing what to do after that, then we went to another doctor recommended by another friend.. dr lc chang from tmc. this time, we showed him the lab tests/ reports/ figures from dr christopher chen, and dr chang actually told us that my husband's viable sperm count was not actually below the average healthy male to begin with!! he also insinuated that it might not have been a necessary surgery at all! it was really quite upsetting.. anyway this doc helped me somewhat overcome my phobia of vaginal scans (to a great degree at least) and i'm also happy to report that now i'm expecting - just 5 wks 5 days now.. i would really attribute it to God.
anyway, then my friend also told me that because of dr christopher chen, her neice (her sister's little girl) was born with a cleft palate. (Dr chen had apparently prescribed some medication for the sister, but the sister told him she was ttc that month, so the medicine may not be suitable, but dr chen said it was fine..) I don't really know the details clearly, but according to my friend, really he was attributed to the baby's unfortunate situation.
so.. you might wanna check out with others first before you go see him..
anyway don't be discouraged ya, maybe find out from others first?
hope this helps!