hi juski! congrats… I will put my #2 (now 5 months) to bed around 7pm and he is asleep by 730, latest 8pm. my #1 will drink milk and start her night routine around 730-800pm. one of us will stay in the room with her until she falls asleep. she will also stay on the bed. if she doesn’t lie down on the bed or want to come down, I will threaten to leave her in the room to play by herself. tell her if she want me to sleep with her she has to 'sleep'. she is quite ok in that regard, I have left her alone in her room a few times when she was naughty, and she will just cry on her bed until we go in to her. so like celyn, by 9pm whole house is dark except my room.
movenpick: my girl is the one that will pull ppl hair and push/beat people now. sigh. I keep telling her cannot do that, pls say sorry, wait next time u got no friends, etc. principal tell me to pay her more attention, spend more time with her but I feel I am already spending more time with her than her didi. but when she was in IFC previously, she was the one that was bitten, we joke that we shd teach her to whack the biter back and now even though we didn't teach, she is really beating. I also dunno what to do.
chips: me too, my girl skip school since last week cos fever, lasted 6 days. just sent her to school today first day.