gbh & bbdust: our hb can join hands together leh.. totally the same.. i can totally relate to all that and all my complains are the same.. let's hug together..
yesterday nearly quarrel with him again too, but i kept my cool cos it's not a big thing.. i told him yesterday whether he can just help me sterilise the baby stuff at the end of the day, only sterilise, not need to wash, not need to help to change my girl and get her ready for bed, not need to put my girl to bed, not need to help change my girl's diapers, alot of not need), he told me rudely "ok lar, pls leave me alone now" cos he's doing his work at that time.. alamak, what kind of attitude is that?? then when i close the room door, i still nag, i don't need alot from you, just this little favour and gave him the pissed off face..
although sometimes i'm really very angry with my hb, but there's once he told me something that when i'm angry with him, i thought of his words, i'm ok already.. one fine day while we are driving home, he told me that one of his friends called him to ask him whether he thought of divorce.. he got a shock and replied "No, never in his life he will thought of divorce". I;m someone that he has been for years and someone that will really appreciate him as what he is.. thou sometimes his temper is crazy and he's doesn't really do much to help me out.. but he knew when we are really in difficult times, he will be there to stand by me and support me.. just like how we been thru when i'm on no-pay leave, he knew he's not earning much, he still helps me clear my credit cards bills.. i know my hubby is not perfect, but he still did what he really promise me as a caring and supporting hubby (not father).. he still needs lots of improvement to be a good father.. hahaha