er.. gummibear, sounds to me.. u cold war with ur hubby hor, boh hua leh... u have to take the night duties.
i have a 3yo, just like u. just that, mine is boy boy la. My boy is those type where he "eat soft dun eat hard" de. So knowing his pattern, i'll always use the soft method on him. But my hubby say i'm spoiling him. So, occassionally, i'll let hubby use the hard method on him and guess what?? it backfires~!!!! corz the harder he is on my boy, the more the boy refuse to cooroperate~!!! lolz.. i'll use that chance to tell him.. "see... why not just tok to him nicely leh?". He tries, and it worked. So hor.. have to let him try to believe lo. then again, it's good that my hubby is so tough on him. Corz daddy is the discipline master lo. On occassions when my son "ki siao" and refuse everything even the soft methods, i'll just say "I'll tell daddy and he smacks you, i dunno ah!!".. usually that works. lolz.
When it comes to discipline kids.. really need to communicate with partner lo. Cannot you one pattern then he one pattern.. the kids will get very confused de. Even with ILs oso must synchronise.
Don't cold war liaoz la. Talk to your hubby. =)
i have a 3yo, just like u. just that, mine is boy boy la. My boy is those type where he "eat soft dun eat hard" de. So knowing his pattern, i'll always use the soft method on him. But my hubby say i'm spoiling him. So, occassionally, i'll let hubby use the hard method on him and guess what?? it backfires~!!!! corz the harder he is on my boy, the more the boy refuse to cooroperate~!!! lolz.. i'll use that chance to tell him.. "see... why not just tok to him nicely leh?". He tries, and it worked. So hor.. have to let him try to believe lo. then again, it's good that my hubby is so tough on him. Corz daddy is the discipline master lo. On occassions when my son "ki siao" and refuse everything even the soft methods, i'll just say "I'll tell daddy and he smacks you, i dunno ah!!".. usually that works. lolz.
When it comes to discipline kids.. really need to communicate with partner lo. Cannot you one pattern then he one pattern.. the kids will get very confused de. Even with ILs oso must synchronise.
Don't cold war liaoz la. Talk to your hubby. =)