bbdust, have you watch "Guan Yun Chang" ah..?? In the show, Cao Cao's men actually duped him and he actually fantasized about the lady he like but lucky he was mentally strong and end up didn't "rape" the lady. After i watched the show, i was telling my hubby, "Wow.. in ancient times, the medicine more power than now leh.. he drink only ah... so HIGH"... lolz.. so ah, if only can get that, it will be so much easier for you and piglet. hahahaha...
oh, i think my ah lao told me that's call "chun yao".