RE: BB not well
I pray that all baby will be healed and whole!
RE: mommy not well
Heavenly Father, continue to give us strength in all adverse condition and situation. Give us wisdom to battle all accusation and open our eyes to recognize that our Lord had pay forth all our sins THERE IS THEREFORE NOW NO CONDEMNATION in our lives! Amen!!
Sunsweet, do you love what you do passionately? Bcos I know there are so many people who decides to continue working because of finance, it's sad that they "drag" themselves to work everyday. I have always enjoyed what I did before I was pregnant, but there is nothing in this world that can buy the time I have with K now. To decide not to work, it's better to work out your finance with your hubby first. Be prepared, some husband does not understand the difference of a child's early development when he/she has a mom around. Also there are many who thinks being a SAHM (those totally w/o income and depend on hubby) is easy, even some of my working gfs thinks staying home is "senang". For me, no matter how tough it is, how deprived I may be, I have no regret deciding to leave behind all the perks I enjoyed when I was working, not even when I had to miss another promotion. Not all are cut out to be SAHM, and it is a BIG decision, so think it over carefully. God bless!
RE: Parental Guardian
I personally do not prefer the style of parenting where you simply scold or smack the child w/o explaining why. My hb's family is the kind that WILL NOT hit a child, but I grew up being hit left, right, center, up-side-down, inside out, top-to-toe.. so I am pretty alright with using the rod, however, I am following the Confucius theory of 因材施教 or different strokes for different folks. Should it need be, when all talking failed, I will lift up the rod.
Remember the hands are for giving loving strokes, the rod is for discipline, should you need.
Happy parenting to all & me!
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