welcome to feb_mum and naive!!!
Re: Thalaesseamia
I was the one who posted it. Actually i'm a major carrier and during my teenage years, I discovered it and I'll just pass a lot of blood when i'm walking, faint when standing for too long a lot of nosebleed etc. As my blood can't clot very well, I was to go for c section in case during natural, the blood won't stop flowing. During my last trimester also, i had to go and deposit some of my own blood just in case i needed extra during the op. End up now my eldest girl also demonstrates a little of thalassaemia traits cos she keeps having high fever and nosebleeds.
I think as long as u are a minor case then its really ok to go for natural. but must really inform your gynae first if you already know your medical history and also if u and hubby share the same blood group, do test early. most likely if u are tested positive, gynae will observe your blood pressure more carefully and prescribe some iron tablets too.No Worries!!
poohwei and jrt lover, I miss my NIE days!!! those were the days when I could go night cycling with my husband(then bf), go out to have supper, do project in hall etc.... jrt lover actually i think a lot depends on the school that you are posted to. My first school was a really gd one and the p was really very profamily. after going into hq for sometime, i was posted back to another school again as we can't stay in hq for more than three years. during the hq times, I really really saw the diff cos everyone is given a real fair share of work, we had fun, lunch breaks are really lunch breaks, off days are really off days and fridays are considered week ends in which we tie up the loose ends and is expected to "clear" the office at latest 5;30 so tat we can spend more time with the family. of cos we had to work hard too but it was fun. the last school that i was posted to was in a niche of its own. it may be very well known and the p is really gd!(Really!) but the management team does not cascade down her views and insists on things their way. thus i quit.
Teaching is not a job. Its made of passion because we believe in the future of our kids which can be shaped in our hands. I salute all teachers esp mummy teachers bcos i know how difficult when we have to teach 100 over students a year and take care of our babes at hme!