Wah.. I missed all the chats last night!!
So did JamGal & Pat find each other today??
Hehe.. me not brave lah!! I was actually taking a career break when I got pregnant loh! Coz the last job super high stress, long hours and lots of nonsense!! Relax and enjoy till I get preggy loh! (That's not part of the plan!) Then being preggy, I can't do much stuff.. so I decide its time to go back to work else I'll be so bored at home!
Then someone decide to hire me despite my pregnancy!! Sabo my chance to be a SAHMTB! But think working better.. I eat more!! Hee only downside is I sleep less loh! And I love being around people!!!
Oh I also "change" my work environment to be those relax relax low stress kind! Good for bb development!!
Erm so can post abit more loh keke but must deliver results in work lah else confirm eat grass!
But seriously, quite lucky lah to get job in recession time + being pregnant!! So I always encourage MTB not to be dishearten or depressed if they got rejected when they are pregnant. Those companies are not worth it!! But then again, I've meet some people and friends who are quite bad loh.. will say things like "HUH, you mean they hire you ah"? Hey I no illness leh! Pregnant only mah.. why the sudden big fuss?? Also maternity leave can be co-arranged with boss one.. Eg take 2M + 2M or work from home loh.. Cannot be prejuiced!! Must look at our potential mah!
I went through quite a "depressing" phase after kenna those meanies psychoing and negative views. Can you believe that when govt announced that maternity leave will go up from 12weeks to 16weeks, I was feeling SAD and WORRIED instead?? I was knock out of my shell by hubby loh, who found me crying one day when he came home from work!! He say all your those "advises" come from people who 1) Are never pregnant, 2) Are not married 3) Are people who always need to cover the shit of people on maternity leave so why be bothered?? Don't make yourself a victim of prejudice!! Say us mummies should unite and stand up to our rights!!
So I think I am an example that Singapore still got HOPE! haaa... Anyways, now we are all in quite an advance stage of pregnancy.. if wanna change job, should wait till during maternity then go interviews!
OOps long post again!! But yes mummies should always stay united and not be at the suffering end of prejudice!! And Happy Mummy = Happy Baby!!