regarding the tests....
i plan to do the oscar and go from there. will NOT do the triple screen as i feel that it is too inaccurate and i refuse to waste my blood on it. like karrie i have been in her shoe before but i have also been in worse position, so i will definitely do the oscar. with one of my pgy, i did not do the oscar, did the triple screen and it came back fine. when it came to the mid pgy anatomy scan, our world turned upside down. our bb was a trisomy baby. with another pgy, we did the oscar and the odd for downs was 1:5. we decide to do the CVS and thankfully she is healthy. for me, i would rather get a false positive, be scared into doing more tests to confirm if things are ok or not. for my peace of mind.
I have done both the CVS and Amnio before. Not something I want to repeat unless absolutely necessary. My dr asked if i want to do the amnio this time cos of our history with a trisomy baby, but I told her I dont want to do it unless there are soft markers from the scan. so now just wait and do the oscar then see how.....
just my experience and 2c.