gelato: Your HB seems quite ok what... the few times we meet. He seems ok handling the kids lei.
True, if just 2 bringing 3 kids, both must be quite hands-on... I'm also afraid cos my HB has 'slacked' since having a maid lol.. he'd still handle the kids, but definitely not like before the maid. Last time with #1 alone, I dun need to say anything, he auto-pilot everything one... now, even giving pocket $, I end up doing it for him lol!
A few times we forgot, so I told him, either he does it or I do, then no need to guess whether the other party has given. He said ok, he'd replenish her pocket $. In the end, by the 3rd day, he conveniently forgot liao! I end up doing it again! Then last week, he told me, aiya, I do it instead... diaonz...
But when called upon to do something for the kids, he will do without making noise la... for that I am thankful.
Lately none of the kids wanted him, they all prefer to clung too me (if they are not being looked after by maid/MIL)... so I told him he had better reflect... cos he has been spending more time on his computer than with the kids, who then naturally all turned to me...