<font color="0000ff">Icylemon,
Can understand that frustration within u!!
I think it's really not a matter of not having sufficient education, but she alrd lives for so long, she shd know wat words to sprout!
She made a very grave mistake of saying that, I can't believe she can say that about her grand-daughter. Anyway, since she had alrd said that, dun get too bothered by it. If she's not concerned, so be it, there's no need for her to be part of Rachel's life oso...
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