Nini,
Yes, Epi C-section can go in but not sure when.
My hubby went in last round but hor, they were so fast that after he changed, he waited out the OT and dunno which one I was in.
He was only brought in after baby came out, like in 5-10 mins after they started C-secting me ...hehe.
I was busy thinking like, where is hubby? baby come out oredi still no sign of him ... hence, no time to think about the cutting part
Epi C-sect is not scary at all la. Can hear the gynae talking to the others about their trip, etc.
Maybe they try to distract us .... can share their story .. perhaps it's a rehearsed one .. hee.
Snow,
Don't worry, you will see your #1 everyday when he visits rite? only at nite when he sleeps then u wun, afterall he sleeps liao. He prob can sleep better at home than in hospital rite? and u also need the rest to take care of #2. At least, they can still bring him to see u in hospital in the day.
For me, I had just sent my #1 to my MIL place and already missing him. Called him and he is so cute over the phone .... My MIL say dun talk to him lest he misses me ... so angry. I told her he is ok one so i spoke to him for a while - dunno what she trying to do. Then next, I heard her wanting to give him raisins but he has a cough and she kept asking him to put down the phone ... so irritating. I keep telling my son to pass the phone to her.
I dunno if i can tahan 2 weeks and maybe longer cos baby gonna be out and #1 is at his recovering stage.
He's gonna miss the most special moment which I had prepared him for ... even taught him to say "Welcome baby", make balloons, buy a cake to welcome his didi.
House feels so empty without him .... and it's only 2 hours he's away. Guess I have to pretend he is in school.
Gonna call often to spot check and make sure my MIL dun "poison" him.
On the other hand, my hubby's so happy ... immediately suggested bringing me out for nice dinner tonite he says, since baby not at home.
He's glad cos son had become first priority to me and maybe he feels neglected. *Oops.
Shall have a good time out tonite - relieve the stress and give him some attention before #2 comes out and he gets lesser.