One tip. I had placed a chair in the shower room so I can sit on it while I bathe ... vv useful for one who has a super big tummy! Very shoik leh but be careful oso la.
That day I sit on the toilet bowl in the middle of the nite and almost fell off cos I sat on the side. Tummy to big liao, cannot balance.
Catherine,
Pacifier. I gave to my #1 on day 1 or 2 after he returns from the hospital cos got no choice, staying at some relative place and they have vv old pple there. Dun wan to disturb them.
I think pacifier is ok, i bought so many to standby liao ... hahaa. I manage to wean my son off when he was like 1 year old.
Yuuri,
Hee, me haven't open the pack yet .. gonna try soon. Will PM u if i need any help
ReiRei, History,
That heartless hubby of my ex-boss? He's a man la and said he understand having children since he has 3 and ok for me to work from home if I get pregnant, that's why I quit to join him. I even "fought" with my hubby regarding taking up that offer. In the end, my hubby was right - Why would a one man show company willing to pay my maternity leave for 12 weeks? anyway, it was the most stressful period of my life and I had to live with it. Perhaps my #1 will also be vv strong too ... heee.
Anyway, if u are confirmed and with the company more than 180 days, you are entitled to your maternity leave if u dun quit la. But sometimes they vv mean, they make things so difficult for u to force u to resign.
MNCs at least can go and complain and bring up to higher management, depends on politics. But one man show, he is the boss ma, so what he says that's it.