Ellysia, it is my hb's decision to leave his family out of it completely. To avoid conflict, we won't tell my ILs about the dinner. My hb even said if his parents want to pay for any dinner for his side, the bb and him won't turn up cos he doesn't want our bb to see certain uncles/aunties of his. it's very hard to explain lah his resent for them... but just to share one incident... one auntie ran after his grandma with a chopper threatening to kill her... another uncle tried to mess up our customary wedding plans in more than 1 way...(ie. she purposely held her daughter's wedding at the same hotel as us a few weeks before our date, and asked for the same coordinator as ours, and then told that coordinator to share our wedding ideas with her, and told that coordinator to make her daughter's wedding much better than our wedding.. of course in the end, our coordinator told us and luckily for us, our wedding was filled with innovative ideas even though it was after her daughter';s wedding!), and there are many other instances....
I know it's not very nice not to invite my ILs' side cos my FIL is the eldest son and this is the 1st grandson, first inside grandchild.. but my hb's mind cannot be changed, and I don't want to fight for this on behalf of my ILs against my hb. I married my hb and not my ILs loh. I already told my hb not good to just invite one side, and even told him no need to invite my side, but he insist want to invite my side still... so leave it to him. in the end, it's both our $. Just can't let ILs know about it lah. Even if they know, they know after better than they know before the celebration.
Glad you find S228 an attractive buy too. It ujst doesn't look as stylish lah, but it's really packed with a lot of useful features!